HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!1

  • star
    19 years ago

    what do u do if u like a guy but he just wants to be friends and nothing else? do i give it time and see what happens? i need alot of advice. thanks!!!!!

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    I think the best thing to do is yes...give it time.

    But during that time, flirt! Little stuff, like touching his arm type things. NOTHING really big. He already knows you likeh him, and now you get to have fun by making him want you!

    Hang out with him with a group of people, but make sure that there are other guys there, and flirt with them as well.

    Dont let him see that you're upset that he doesn't like you the same way. That will just push him away. You need to act like nothing happened.

    It will be weird at first kind of, but fun all the same.

    Just have some fun with him! Don't make it to ovious that you want him. Lol. That will just make him roll his eyes and look away.

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    19 years ago

    You obviously cannot force him into anything he doesnt want to do.

    When you guys are hanging out, being "friends," just flirt with him subtly, flirt with other guys around too so that he gets a little jealous and thinks that other guys want you.

    Dont wait for him, just carry on with your life. Make him know what he's missing.

  • michelle
    19 years ago

    i totally agree. let him know what he is missing but dont stress about it. flirt with him so that he knows that you like him but flirt with other guys to let him know that you're not going to just wait around for him. leave it up to him, this way you dont have to get stressed.if he takes the opportunity thats great, and its because he really wanted to. if he doesnt take it then atleast it doesnt look like you were obsessed. in the mean time, take time for yourself. get to know yourself a little better, this way when the time comes that you get into a relationship, whether with him or someone else, you can go into it with your whole heart. i know that isnt exactly what you wanted to hear, but it is true. also remember a really old quote, "good things are worth the wait." good luck!!

  • star
    19 years ago

    aww thanks for the advice. but the problem is we only see each other like a couple of times during a month, like once or twice

  • LoÑ£ly♥P!rÄτΣ
    19 years ago

    I was in that same situation! Just wait it out. Talk with him alot. Get to know eachother. Flirting with other guys helped me get the guy I liked, but I always flirted back with the guy I liked immidiatly. I think it says that you still like him, but you aren't tied down to only him. Idk...it got me the guy I wanted. Best of luck to ya! I hope you get him!
    Katie

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    Well how long have you liked him for? I find that if you give it time, you will either get together, or if it wasn't meant to be, then you will go off of him.

  • star
    19 years ago

    i liked him since march

  • star
    19 years ago

    ohh yeah