***ADVICE NEEDED BADLY!!***

  • themeuneverseen
    19 years ago

    Ok u see I have a boyfriend and i love him sooooo much but i think i am in love with my best guy friend 2! We went out before but i broke it off cause i didnt want to ruin our freindship but now idk what t do cause i really like him too....GRRR! Someone help please!

  • Selfrejected
    19 years ago

    you cant have your cake and eat it too...
    decide you selfish whore...

  • themeuneverseen
    19 years ago

    OMG! Whore?!?! not even close...all i wanted was advice on how to pick between to people you love not for people to call me a whore! i thought maybe there was some kind and considerate people on this site who would help me out who were or are maybe in the same situation! and selfish....no! thats y i want help! u dont know me or do i think i want you to so you can just shut the f*** up!

  • michelle
    19 years ago

    don't listen to them, childish or not you have a situation on your hands. and whether or not they want ot admit it, most people have been through this or something similar. i always had issues when it came to boyfriends. i always had feelings for more then one guy. i never even knew it until i started to date the other person. things like this happen. what i think that you should do is break up with this guy and dont be with either of them. you need to step back and get in touch with yourself. you will be able to make a better decision if you arent with either of them and you take time out. if either of them are worth your time then they will both be there when you are ready to make a real and honest decision. don't feel bad, you'll get past this. keep your head up and good luck!!

  • themeuneverseen
    19 years ago

    Thanx hun....I don't want to break up with him but maybe it is for the best.......but i still dont know.....

  • Kayleigh Hogg
    19 years ago

    Hiya Hun, Does your friend feel the same way about you?? Do you really love your boyfriend and want to be with him? which one makes you the most happy? These are some questions you will have to answer before making a decision. Personally, if your friend is a really good one i would keep him as a friend because good friends are hard to come by nowadays and if you get with him and you have an arguement you could loose him forever.
    Good luck
    Kayleigh xxx

  • Jenny Sys
    19 years ago

    Answer these questions
    1. Who have you liked the longest?
    2. Who do you have most feelings for?
    3. Who makes you happiest?
    4. Who are you most comfortable around?
    5. Who do you trust more?
    6. Who can you imagen being with for months, years to come?
    If you have got answers which are 50/50 then....
    7. Who likes/ loves you most?

  • themeuneverseen
    19 years ago

    Thanx everyone! It really helps! :)

  • themeuneverseen
    19 years ago

    I think that I'm going to break up eith my bf now and go out wit the other one! He seems to answer all those questions rite.....