I can't get over it

I can't get over my grandfather's death. Sometimes I just wanna die because I wouldn't have to worry about all these things. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I have no choice.

people die it's life...
if you can't live with people dieing...
your life is gonna suck major ass...

Selfrejected: If you have nothing constructive to say, don't say anything. You're not helping anyone and you're making yourself look exceedingly juvenile.

Mandy-Rae: People you love will die, and you will feel pain and sadness because of this. But this is no reason to feel like you want to die. You have to come to terms with your grandfather's death. Just remember his life and his love for you. Celebrate his life, don't mourn his death.

I have to agree with Timothy...you have to celebrate his life, not mourn his death!

That's what I always tell people. It really helps. What helped me when my grandparents passed away was I found a picture of all 3 of us. Just me, my pop-pop, and my grandma. I'm a baby in the picture, but they're holding me, and smiling. I have their picture on my mirror. Whenever I need someone to talk to, I talk to the picture. I say goodbye, goodnight, whatever I want to it. I know that they are listening and what helps, is because they are smiling in the picture, it makes me smile.

Death is a hard thing to deal with. But if we only just sit and cry about it, then whoever it is that died, is going to be up in heaven...if you believen in it...looking down on us, and thinking what they did wrong. Your grandpa would want you to run around and laugh, sing, dance, have a great time!

Just remember that he is always with you, and watching over you. Whenever you need to talk, he'll listen. If he's anything like my grandparents, he'll even leave you little signs that he heard you, and that he loves you....if you believe in that stuff...lol

I hope I helped sweetie! Let me know if you ever want to talk.

I understand how you feel, death is a hard thing to deal with...Believe me it takes time but it does get easier. I too hit rock bottom after a bereavement but the pain eventually subsides-I know it sounds corny sayin that time is a healer but it's so true... Im sure your grandfather is silently guiding you through the pathway of life, he will help you to cope because eventhough you cant see him his presence will always be there... Make him happy and live your life to it's fullest as Im sure he did.******

i'm really sorry about your grandfather...but there is no life with out death.it's gonna be hard to get over your him but you should also be happy for him that hes not in this shit hole.i know you probably miss him but its the memorys that counts that you had with him....i hope you feel better soon though...