*** i cut and my b/f wants me 2 stop wdid

All i can say is just STOP! just tell yourself you'll never do it again, and PROMISE! and next time you get the urge then do something else instead. Really, if that doesn't help then you need someone to help you stop...for example your parents. Or you can always get help from some adult somewhere, someone you can trust. That's all I can say. Just don't give up.
Satuxxa

If he hit you, you shouldnt go out with him anymore. And at the same time you should try to stop cutting....I know its hard and you might not be able to, but at least try.

Girl, I think you have enough sense to realize that what this boy is doing isn't right. I mean, beating you just because you self-harm, What is up with that?? If he loves you and cares for you he would help you to stop, and try and understand why you do it in the first place. He likes to be in control and that is what he is doing ... controlling you. No girl deserves that. Get rid of him, trust me. He'll just cause you more pain in the end.
Best wishes,
- Shell xx

he's telling you to stop hurting yourself and then turns around and hurts you himself....dump him AND stop cutting

dump him and stop cutting....i know its really hard, but try....*big hug*

-brittnay-

Sweetheart you're only 14 years old. First of all, get out of the relationship if he is going to beat you. I don't care what his reasons are, even if it's just a smack on the back of the head, get out of it. It's not worth it at your age! It's never worth it really.

Once you get out of the relationship, you need to work towards the whole stopping thing. It's not going to be a walk in the park but its something that you need to do NOW before you get any older, and any more addicted to it.

There are so many other things that you can do to get out your anger, and to help you when you are so upet. Try a rubber band. I've just resently strated doing this, and it really helps. It doesn't leave anything for a long time. Just for a little bit.

I'm only suggesting this because I know how hard it is to go from cutting, to no cutting....you need to take it slow or else the urges are going to get to be to much, and if you ever go with the urge, you will do it worse then ever because in your head you'll think that you need to make up for it. You know what I mean?

Good luck and you can talk to me if you want!

That's great that you haven't cut in 3 days. Keep it up!