Im Ill and my bf doesnt know it

  • Free_Spirit
    20 years ago

    Hey well 1st he should respect u 4 hu r u! and he shouldnt worrie bout ur cancer well like u no unless he dont love u! well if it feels rite 4u 2tell him then yea go 4it...he shouldnt b ashamed or like embarrest yano?

    if he really loves u he wouldnt care wat was rong wit u!...well yea i hope i sota helped lol cuz yea...

    hope everyfing works out!!.....lozaluv Reneess

  • Daenerys Stormborn
    18 years ago

    you should tell him you have cancer. if you love him, then you should trust him. it will hurt him terribly to find out, but it would hurt him worse to find out from someone else. i am so sorry you have cancer, i am near tears writing this because i feel so empty. be strong and keep fighting.

  • clevername
    18 years ago

    if if loves you that much... he'd wanna be with your while you go through this... if he is as good as you think he is... and it sounds like he is... i really think you should tell him... it probably hurt more when you broke up with him and he didn't no... im sure he'd really appreciate it if you told him the whole story.. well not that much appreciate... but understand better... and help you through this...

    good luk and i hope you get better

  • Avrii Monrielle
    18 years ago

    you're reminding me of mandy moore's role in "A Walk To Remember"

    just tell him... it's better 2 know the truth then to know a million lies. in my opinion, if i was him, i'd want to know how you died without hearing it from somewhere else and regret the fact that i'd never known.

  • clevername
    18 years ago

    I think this post was important... because it showed that how ur fighting to survive... wel so many people on this site... are fighting to die...

    I bet your such a strong person.... and i bet you value life more than anyone else...

    but never be afraid because this is jsut the beginning

    good luk...

    peace and love

    and please tell your boyfriend... i agree strongly with the post above me~

    maggie o.

  • ~anorexic_ballerina~
    18 years ago

    I think you should tell him. If he really loves you (and he must if you've been together for 2 years) he will want to be ther for you and help you in any way he can. I am having a similar problem but i dont have cancer i have an eating disorder and I dont know if i should tell my boyfriend. Just be strong. You are very brave to be going through something like this. take care.
    xoxo Sami