Confused!please advise

okay maybe im being stupid here but hey...we all are at times lol the thing is i met this lad wen i wo on a family holiday in bristol (like 3/4hours drive from where i live). we have been emailin and textin each other and i really like him and i know he likes me cos hes told me, but hes a bit of a player and then there's the distance...but we're on about goin darn to see each other soon or we guna meet up halfway...is this a stupid idea or does anyone think it cud lead somewhere? i no im prob readin wey too far into this and we never guna meet but we can all dream? not sure of wot kind f advise im lookin for here, i just wanted to get it off my cheast but if anyone has or is in similar situation then please comment...take care of urselves xxxLoUxxx

thanks for ur advise yea just guna keep chattin and see wot happens!
thanks!!!
take care xxxLoUxxx

listen, i have been in 3 long distanc relationships. 2 fell through and one worked. we have been together for almost 2 years now and we are engaged. i think that love is always a risk, especially when it is long distance. but you said that he is a player? do you really want to set yourself up for that? it is hard enough for a faithful person to be faithful in a long distance relationship, it's twice as hard for someone who isnt known as a faithful person in the first place. think about it but in the end follow your heart

yea thats true! i duno if anything wud happen are not i think im just guna keep chattin to him and if we meet up see how things go?! thats for ur advise means a million!
xxxLoUxxx

*no i dont think its a stupid idea*
well i agree with them also, you should continue talking to him...but be careful not to get to attached, ... but if he says he really likes you... and you really like him GO FOR IT!!! :-D... who knows what could happen.... i say conitue on talking to him.....i hope that helped yuh...good luck,

okay so a lil update for all u people who commented! well ive been chattin to the guy for like a month, practically every night, and ive come to realise hes not the player i thought he was, i thinks hes grown out of that stage now. well to let u all know im goin down to stop at his house for few days in just under two weeks time and so ill b able to see where it goes from there. we both are proper falling for each other altho neither of us are sure whether we'd be able to do long distance rships or not. however, i cant wait to go down and see him! im SO excited and i thought id let u all know. thanks for the advise
take care
xxxLoUxxx

just another update for anywho cares (if anyone does lol) i went down to his this week and we had the most amazing time together and we get on so well! he has got a great family and we just had such a brilliant time. he should be comeing up to mine in bout a months time and we are officially a couple now. we both knkow its goin to b really hard cos we miss each other already but we both want it to work. any words of encouragement would be greatful! hehe
take care
xxxLoUxxx