...advice

ok... this is my problem
The situation:.... i was seeing this guy right, but the problem was we lived far apart and never saw each other... we both really care for each other...but it doesnt seem like we'll ever spend time with the other... and we only are able to talk on AIM... or on the phone... like alllllll the time
Problem: ..but.....i ended it..****and still today i was thinking to myself..why WHY..i blame myself so much, it kills me..i wish i could turn back time..and stop myself..but i cant****.but..i didnt realize how much i was in love with him..*when we were over*. and he cared to..i tried getting him back...but he thinks it better if we move on.. and he has a girl-friend now.... but he still talks to me the same, cept for some minor things... but i am having such a difficult time letting go..my friends are all like "just let it go"...but... i cant... like i have tried going out with other guys, but it feels so wrong..and doesnt seem right... nothing seems to anymore... i mean its not like i mope everywhere, but when it comes to love and relationships...he is all i think about... i mean we talked so much... how can you let something so great go?.... seriously if you saw us... but if he is moving on... i guess i should to...but..i need help... i dont want to... but it doesnt seem like i have any other choice..I MEAN I RUINED FOR MYSELF... ARGH WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!......... i dont even know what i was thinking...worst thing i could ever do... and i am so mad at myself :-(.............................................someone...anyone...advice?

hey there luv! i duno wot to put really...but dont blame urself u did what u thought was best at the time...dont cum down hard on urself. i know its hard to loose someone u love but hes moved on and there isnt anything u can do about it so dont blame urself. i know its harsh and i know it doesnt feel rite to be with another guy but just put urself out there. trust me if u meet someone itll take ur mind off em if only for a little while.
please love dont blame urself!!! take ur mates advise and move on...i know its seems stupid cos uve spend so much time fallin in love with someone it feels impossible to stop..u cant just stop overnight. u just need sum sort of closure.
i know this isnt very helpfully what im saying but if u do want to chat just email me, my addi is on my profile
take care of urslef hun
xxxLoUxxx

oh and by the way if u have any advise on my prob?? i wud be really greatful!
xxx

Just try and talk to him get him as a mate then let fate do the rest.... i no this feelin only not really from your point of veiw my ex dustin lives a 40min drive from me he broke it off and now wants me back at 1st i was rude and now we dont talk i talked to his twin and things are sweet now were not back together but we are mates again :D