how to trust

I have a huge problem with trusting people but especially guys and can't even keep them as friends because of it. If anyone has some advice I'll gladly take it. ~thanks~

whats xenophobic

i find it hard to have trust within a relationship... my first boyfriend cheated on me, and then lied to my face about it.. which has deeply effected me, not only in trusting guys, but in wanting relationships. my only advice is that eventually it will get easier... you're only young... live your life, and try not to worry so much...

I just keep having it broken and find myself not being able to trust anymore

like i said... you will learn to as you get older... at 13, nothing is certain in your life... and maybe the reason you are having difficulty trusting anyone is your hormones... hormones can be strange, you know... keep ya chin up chicky. it'll b ok.

my mom is but shes sleeping right now or else I'd ask her

Charmaine - French Canadians are the descendants of French settlers in Lower Canada. Hope that helps.

If you want to truly define trust for yourself, you'll realize that most of your friends are graded down to aqauitences.

I think of trust as being one step down from love, or even like. If you don't know if you trust someone or not, ask yourself one thing..."Would I take a bullet for this person?"

That changes things a lot...

jus go w/tha flow and keep your mind wide and dont judge ppl too quick

I'm having a harder and harder time talking to anyone about anything. Even just little things.

We must first learn to trust ourselves...

Just an example of what I mean. I haven't talked in almost a month now. Because I don't feel I can talk. Kind of confusing I guess.

try letting people earn trust off u... i was exactly the same as ive been let down alot in the past and i decided y should i trust people if all they do is throw it in my face, then i got with my current bf n he seemed different he kinda taught me to trust people and i realised that i wouldnt get anywhere in life if i coudnt trust at least some people

ive realized that but now i just dont know how to trust anymore

~thanks all~

I found someone that I want to trust but then I keep getting scared because I'm not sure if I should trust them.

i trust to much wich is my problem..
but once they hurt me once... its done, i dont need to deal with bullshit. but u need to learn to trust becuase thats one thing to make a friend ship so just try harder... its good to get hurt in the end ..... only makes you stronger and ready for the next person who comes along

I don't really trust people. I've tried before but I get shut down so I just stopped trying. Plus sometimes people don't even care, so why bother? It's hard for me to be able to open up and trust someone unless it's my lil sister. So yeah...

I'm having a hard time being able to trust even my family. I'm starting to wonder if maybe I should just stop trying.