are all guys like this?

do all guys start to become insensitive when the relationship becomes longer and more content. is it just my guy or a common thing?

Depend on what the relationship was based on. If it was on look, then forget it.

all guys r different... they all have an up side and a down side to them but sometimes its hard to see the up side of them...

Not all guys becoem insensitive after a long relationship but they do have the tendency to get comfatable.If your bf is doing somehitng you think is alittle insensitive or mean then just tell him it may be he snot even realizing hes coming across that way.After a while together your more comfatable so you dont tip top round what you say like you do in the beginning.talkign about it with him should clear it up just let him know how you feel.Good luck

thanks so much for your responses. the thing is i do tell him that he is being like that and he always makes excuses of why he is acting like that. he is just absorbed in himself all the time now. help!!

How long have you all been dating?.if he has reasobale explanations then just bear with it evryone has probelsm time to time which affect how they treat the ppl the y care for even tho its unintentional.Now if its lame and hes just being a jerk cause he wnats to be then try talkign to him and if he just doenst care how hes acting is affecting you then hes not really worth it.In a realtionship it s a 2 way thing if both ppl cant give respect it wotn werk out in the long run so tel him if he acts liek this hell just push you away and strain the relationship to see if that clears things up for him.maybe hell think more for sake of not wanting to lose your relationship.I hope thinsg werk out all relationships have ups and down .

i duno bt all da lads i no do!

thanks. i think that i will talk it out with him. thanks again!!

It all depends on what your both looking for in the relationship. If he's looking for sex than he's gonna want to move on after a while and find something new but if its for love than that means he doesn't truely love you. Sorry to be so blunt but thats the way I think it is and I'm a guy.

it depends on the guy.

Sweety they ALL suck! We just have to deal with it. Because with out them we can't reproduce more ass holes.

Bob: I have come to conclusion that I want you as my husband and no body else. I don't want to ruin the rest of my life with the wrong man. So, what do you say?