Alone and Numb.....Any Advice?

lately ive just felt so weird. everyone in my class has a bf or gf or likes someone a lot (keep in mind its a fairly small class). and me, well after there was this guy at my old school i liked a lot, but i wasnt ready to tell him yet, but then all of the sudden i changed schools and i never got to tell him. ever since then, i just feel numb, like i cant love, and ive been more nervous around guys, like i dont want the same thing to happen again, so i just close off and now non of them even know what king of person i am or even that i exist. i know the obvious advice is to call the guy up and tell him, but if i do, i know it wouldnt help because nothing would ever come of it and i would still be alone. so just right now, i feel alone and numb....any advice?

let the guys come to you.... u dont want to look desperate.. just keep your perspectives wide and nothing should stop you... a guy wiol come you way, so dont shut them out

Sweetie, you're 13 years old. I know that it hurts to see all of your friends with someone to hold, but think about it....you don't have to deal with the heartbreak!!

You haven't even started life yet. I wouldn't worry to much about it. Hell...I didn't get my first boyfriend till I was a junior in high school!! I have a friend who's graduating from high school here in like 2 months, he's 18, and has never had a girlfriend but he's so happy with the life that he has! He's always surrounded by couples, and I feel bad when like my bf and I kiss around him, but he doesn't care!

Things will be fine. You're still young. All of your friends are going to be crying from heartbreak, and you'll be there to help. That's so much better then you crying as well. Trust me....I've been there sweetheart.

thanks for the advice. im trying not to rush into things, its just with everyone around me, i just feel weird. i know some guy will come, im not really desperate or anything, in fact im the opposite when it comes to my actions. its just that it has been two years, and i feel like this heartbreak will never mend...but thanks, i know now i dont have to rush, i can take my time. thanks again.

Lets see if I can be of any help...

I am in a somewhat similer situation, but a few differences of mine (E.g., Age, class size, etc.) make it a tad different from yours, but I may still help.

*Ahem*

I'd say go with the previous post, but I'll add in a few details. Instead of searching for love, seeking for friends, I'd suggest keep to yourself, but do not be shy. If any one wants to talk, or say hi, or get to know you, open up. Show them what you are like. People will talk to people, and they will talk to thier friends, and then before you know it, you'll be picking out "what you want" out of the croud.