scared

  • helena
    19 years ago

    hi, i dno how to put this bt..im shit scared i myt b pregnant, my period was due about 2 weeks ago does anybody know anything else this could be.. what should i do?

  • Dorotea©
    19 years ago

    Well.....go to the doctor and you'll find out soon enough! But why even have sex if you're so scared of getting pregnant? Yeah, go to the doctor.
    Satuxxa

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    Satuxxa you are SO insensitive! Why criticise everything that you may not agree with? Everyone that does not want a child yet is scared of getting pregnant so your telling them not to have sex? Your unbelievable. Anyway as for the girl who posted this, I would go and get a test, whther its from a doctor, a connexions place where they give you tests or anywhere else, i would advise that more. Best of luck hun
    ~*~KiM~*~
    xXx

  • helena
    19 years ago

    aww thanx alot hun its nice 2 no dat theres sum friendly faces on this sight, as 4 the people who think they can judge me i would just like to make it clear that it wasnt a one night stand or anything like that, ive been with my boyfriend over a year now and i dont understand how this could have happened since i am on the pill?

  • olivia
    19 years ago

    take a pregnancy test if ur late and know just cause your on the pill there is the cahnce you can still get pregnant.Pill also does not protect against stds so you should be using a condom as well if you want to be safe from diseases and possible pregnancy. Good luck.

  • helena
    19 years ago

    i started my period 5 years ago and have a very regular pattern so i know it isnt that im just starting to get really freaked out .. my boyfriend has offered to go to the clinic with me asap so that helped a bit knowing that he wil be there 4 me.. thanx 4 all of your advice..fingers crossd :-(

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    hey have you heard anything yet?

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    my friend actually has this weird thing with her that she was telling me about, she doenst get her period in the summer so you might just be having an irregular period, but you should get a test just to be sure because you never know. you really should use a condom even though you are on the pill to be safe. i'm paranoid about things like that so just for future reference you know. i hope everything goes well :)
    -A

  • Dorotea©
    19 years ago

    Helena,
    I didn't mean to be rude. All i meant was that if you don't a child, don't have sex...and if you're scared of getting pregnant. I'm sorry if I sounded rude, but i wasn't trying to. Hope everything goes well=)
    Satuxxa

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    The pill is not 100% gaurenteed (sp?) to work. Its like 99% protection so therefore there is a chance pregnancy can occur. Same with condoms or any other protection, only 99% safe.

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    If you're taking the pill, it's still recammended that you use a condom as well. You can still get pregnant though so just not having sex is really the best way to go!! Lol.

    But I wouldn't trust a home pregnancy test either. Yes, for the most part they are accurate, but a lot of the time they aren't. My friend took one because her period was like 2 days late, so she took one, it came up positive, and she had her period the next day....she was very confused so she went to the doctor, and they told her that she wasn't. SOOOOOO....go see a doctor if you really think that you might be pregnant.

  • helena
    19 years ago

    wow evry1 whos writ a reply has been really supportive and helpful it really has made things clearer 4 me, im going to the clinic with my boyfriend 2moz n i suppose il av 2 do a test there so il let u no what happens , im just really hoping that its negative because i already know il have 2 have an abortion if im pregnant because he doesnt want it..

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    whoa stop there, ur having an abortion if you are pregnant because HE wants you to. What about you? Its your body, your risks. Dont do anything you dont really want to do. People regret it for the rest of their lives a lot of the time, but the bloke doesn't care coz its not growing inside him. Dont make a wrong desicion hun, thinks things through. xXx

  • helena
    19 years ago

    hi, well i went 2 da clinic 2day n had a test done and it came up negative but if i still dont come on in 2 weeks then i have to go back, im kinda releived about it and its baught me and my bf closer together as weve been able to talk about whats best etc, we are going to be alot more careful infuture to make sure it doesnt happen again and we dont have 2 have a baby at least till were ready :-) Thankyou to evryone who gave me advice it really did help when i was stressing, Thanx again :-) xxx

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    hey helena! well i was goin to comment but everything seems to have sorted itself out....well i think it was really great that ur b/f wanted to go to clinic with u and that u took everyones advise and got it sorted out asap and put ur mind at risk...u did the right thing...well all there is left to say from me is all the best for the future and hope u n ur bloke are very happy!
    take care luvi
    xxxLoUxxx

  • helena
    19 years ago

    thanx honey, take care xxx