OUR point of view!

Our Veiw on Cutting:
(Mine and Haleighs!)

Its not selfish... its an escape, if people really cared theyd help, not judge you and hurt you constantly... if people dont care, it cant be selfish, youre only hurting yourself, which gives you pleasure...You arent hurting anyone else!!! THEY DONT CARE ANYWAYS!
Youre not hurting anyone else if they dont care what happens to you... If they think you are worthless and useless, why would they care? We see other peoples problems, but still, its not like by seeing other people being hurt worse makes us feel better

p.s...Satuxxa513
YOU ARE WRONG

Anyone got anything to add?

-xx-
~Broken Inside~
and
♥::HaLeIgH::♥

How does joining an activity help? You will just worry again once you are done it. Writing only works for so long to release everything, eventually you become so depressed you cant write, you dont know whats going on... the only escape left sometimes is cutting.

Oh, and I am not trying to get people to cut, just sticking up for those that do and get judged for their actions.

i have cut myself so i know what it feels like to have so much pain that you cannot bear it any more and i know what its like to feel rejecting because of what you do and to be shund by your own friends because they could not except the fact that you cut and that someone in their class in their lives didnt think they had any other option that to turn to self harm.

People will judge and you cant stop them, so sometimes you have to be the better person and move on with your own life so that things might improve or so that you can make something for yourself and so that youll have a future.

So many people say "your body is your temple" so treat it with respect, when you have never been showen respect it is very hard to give yourself any.

Every one has an opinion some agree some dont and many just dont really know what to think, but i personally think that it would be better if we could just except the facts that are infront of us and help people instead of critisising them, you never know what is going through someones mind so who are we to judge what they do or how they act.

So haleigh, broken inside, and nada are all right in their own way, i dont like to judge people but i probably do it un conciously so i dont really want to take any sides both are correct in different ways .

Sorrry that was really long but any way its just my thoughts on this matter i dont mean to offend anyone because i think your all right in some way
*peace*
jen x

Well said (-)!DD£N M£@N!N& ... if you need to talk ever just send me a PM alrite?
xx

hey do u have msn broken inside? ok sooff topic but ye do u?
jen x

Yeah I do...
{I edited my address out :-p}

xx

awsome job (-)!DD£N M£@N!N& i think that is very well said

much love
savannah

(Took this long crazy thing out because it was LONG... and I dont need my sis in law or anyone finding out my acct again!)

That was longer than it was supposed to be
Whoops! Sorry!

Did you read my long post nada? I wanna delete it so my sister in law doesnt figure out this is my account......

My shoulder is fine now, just a big scar... that opens up sometimes.. But that will be fine

My brothers wife didnt leave, she forgave him, I wish she would just leave.

Yes my problem is basically she is a bitch, I dont have the capability to hate her though, I tried to make things right with her last night and she basically said screw off.. So I do beleive I give up on her now...

Thanks for your help...
Im sorry if Ive been rude
Im just lost lately...
And people judging me... Is really making me mad

I have been stopping... I havent cut since the 16th... I think... and I havent did salt n ice since the 14th I believe...Its hard though...My moms making me show her at the end of this month to prove I stopped...
:-/
Im outta here for a bit though
Take Care
-xx-

Well thanks :)
I shall be back later
Have a good one.

I think our thread died...........

Anyone else got anything to say???

I think your right.. and that peoplewho cut shouldnt be ridiculed for it. its something personal and no one has the right to judge you!

Look.

If you've been given a body, use it the right way! Don't go scarring your beautiful body and cut it up! Hello? YOUR BODY!!! You should feel very guilty to actually even think of hurting yourself.
There are thousands of people born deformed, and you know what they'd give anything up to have that body of yours, and what do you do with it? Cut it up just because of some problems with a boyfriend or at home!
Okay fine, I know a lot of you might have serious, and I mean serious problems, but, with a cheerful and positive look on life you'd get over it! Cutting does not help at all, i swear it doesn't. It just worsens things, because you get obsessed with your own problems.
So, instead of being ignorant and selfish, cherish the fact that you were given a beautiful body and stop cutting it up.
There.
Satuxxa

Don't sit at home and gloat, everyone else has problems too and instead maybe go out and help someone else! Just a thought.
Satuxxa

Look, I've been through a bunch of things too, so yes i do know "a shit about pain" the way you put it. I'm not saying that by having a cheerful look on everything all your problems go away, but i'm saying that your life would be a lot easier, cuz you wouldn't be gloating on your problems (and it seems like that's what you're doing). It's great that you're helping others, i truly mean that. It's good. But, you also need to take care of yourself, and cutting is definitly not caring for yourself. I'm sure in the future when you get married..and whatever you'll really wish you hadn't cut cuz there will be so many ugly scars on your arms. And also, don't you feel guitly when you see a deformed person and you know they'd give anything for the body you willingly cut up?

*guilty

You keep saying that it's "your body". If it their body, then why do you care so much? Sorry if that came out mean,but it wasn't supposed to.

But seriously...I'm not saying that self-harming is ok. It's not....I had to over come it myself. When I hear of others doing it, it makes me sick because I know all about it. I wish that I could get everyone to stop but you're right...it's their body!! It's just like everyone is entitled to their own opinions, and everyone is entitled to do what they want with their body! It' just like being a hooker, or a drugy, or an alchoholic....It's their body so whatever!!

It doesn't mean that its right at all, but when you have had a shitty life like some people have had, then you don't see yourself as having a beautiful body. You just see the pain that having that body brings, and so you harm it.

Again, I'm not saying that cutting is good at all what so ever. I just wanted to throw out there that sometimes, when you have been so depressed, you don't see it as being beautiful anymore, and it's just a problem.

Good points SatinRisse... I like how neutral you are :)

Of course, your body is yours, and im not saying i wouldnt allow you to cut or anything, but im saying that its your choice, though cutting is a really bad choice cuz youre basically taking for granted the body so many people have never had. So there.

i just think people should be thankful

I don't think you both want to be happy (to whoever was writing an arguement on how we should pity cutter). I think you should stop being miserable, get over the past, and work on how to make the future better, instead of making it worse.

When you're 30 years old, you won't want your body to be one giant cut.

This is just MY point of view. Listen to it. And stop doing such a STUPID thing (cutting is STUPID and should STOP).

"Its not selfish... its an escape, if people really cared theyd help, not judge you and hurt you constantly... if people dont care, it cant be selfish, youre only hurting yourself, which gives you pleasure...You arent hurting anyone else!!! THEY DONT CARE ANYWAYS!"

Oh, and if we didn't CARE we wouldn't be posting here anyways. We are HELPING, how else can we help? We're telling you to stop, how to stop, and why to stop.

What more do you want?!?!

We also care that you're ruining your teenage life. these are the best years of your life, so make the most of them.

satuxxa513, everything toyou is about how everyone has everything worse than us isn't it......people have worse bodies and other people go through worse things, but what does that have to with me cutting myself, do you feel guilty when you drink a cup of clean water...because the way you talk, you should feel guilty "because so many people have it worse, they have to drink disgusting water and some don't get water at all for days" and what about showers, do you have showers or are you too guilty because some people don't have houses or showes so they can't shower, do you eat, from everything you say to me, you sound like a very hipocritical person, think please, just think about it! we are not doing anything worng

shadow poet, my best years of my life are not now, not here, not coming soon, so don't say that, "these are the best years of your life" COZ THEY AREN'T

Haha. I was waiting for my responce.
"These are the best years of your life" is a very reknown quote. You can't predict the future, so they might be...

yes but my past was better than the present, so if anything was to be the best years of my life, its the past, in maybe it will change in the distant fuiture, but not in my teenage years, lol, this argument could go on for ever

Lucy,
Yes, i do say a lot about the not taking your body for granted. But, that has nothing to do with clean water.
You see I don't take clean water, dirty it up, and then drink it right? I take it the way it is and drink it just like that. You should do that with your body. You shouldn't go and cut yourself up.
I believe you when you say you go through a lot of pain and maybe your life doesn't seem perfect now does it? Okay, i won't compare it to others, but seriously have a positive look on life! If you don't and if you think your entire life is gonna suck and you cut yourself because of that, then guess what your future will suck! But then it will be totally your fault...and you won't be able to blame anyone else. Sure, getting raped is not your fault and you couldn't do anything about that, but you can atleast try to learn from everything that happens in your life, even if they aren't good things.
If you have a cheerful and positive look on life, i promise you everything will be a lot better. Of course that doesn't take away all the pain, but atleast you take control of your mind and decide that no matter how bad everything seems, you'll be able to look on the bright side of things.
Just try that, PLEASE!
Satuxxa