14 and 20?

  • ♥CRIMSONxX♥
    19 years ago

    This is not a personal question, but if you are 14 is it wrong to like a 20 year old? and if you are 20 is it wrong to like a 14 year old?
    i am 16 and have a 16 year old bf, but my friend likes sum1 who is 20 n she is 14, what does everyone think?

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    it's definitely not legal. and it is a tad bit strange. chances are it's just a small crush. i used to have a crush on my math teacher when i was 14 but that was nothing. my friend is 15 and shes currently dating a 23 year old, and i can tell you honestly, he doesnt want her for her good looks, brains or charm. it's purely sex for him and she doesnt see it. that's what makes it a very immature relationship. your friend's circumstance might be different though, miracles happen i suppose.
    -A

  • Ophilia
    19 years ago

    i dont think it really matters I am 16 and like a 26 year old

  • Megan
    19 years ago

    i like a 20 year old and im 15...hes AMAZING!

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    do you think he'll really be for you if you get pregnant? cause i know my friend's guy wont. think stuff through.
    -A

  • Lovemylove
    19 years ago

    Not if love the person but its not young even if a 20 yr old likes a 14 yr old my fiancee' is 20 almost 21 and i'm 15 almost 16 and we met we I was 14 in a half and when he was 19 in a half.

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    ...that's messed up
    -A

  • SatinRisse
    19 years ago

    It's illegal for someone under the age of 17, to have any kind of sexual contact with someone that is 21 or older. Just to throw that out there....I've posted that a couple of times, but dont mind doing it again.

    As for the engaged girl....You're engaged at 15? Wow...that is messed up. BUT if you think that it's going to work, and that you guys will stay together forever, then good for you. Don't be to surprised if it doesn't last though. Just warning you.

  • ♥CRIMSONxX♥
    19 years ago

    its not sexual at all! and here it is 16, but that has nothing to do with it, and you can get married at 16, as long as you have your parents concent! [not that i have any ideas about getting married this young!]

  • Sierra Rae
    19 years ago

    Seriously I tried that...and it really did not work out...it's a lot of trouble, sneaking around...trying to fit in more with the older croud, trying to impress people...it can be really stressful and 99% of the time it's not gona work out in the long run at all...