Another advice topic...

So, here I am, asking for help from people a don't even know...

The thought that there are people here that has gone through the same thing and wants to help people like me is what keeps me on this site.

Anyhow, onto the subject...

Get ready to read a long deal so as to understand my situation...

*Ahem*

After 6 years of Martial Arts training and 3 years of having no emotion, I have lately been working on bringing back my humanity. I did the whole bury my humanity because if I still cared, I would have resolved to Self Termination, so killing my emotions was the only way to keep on living.

Even though the worst is behind me, I am still suffering from the past, and after a long talk with my brother (my only living family member left, mind you.), I was adviced to seek an emotion that has never before been brought into my life: Love...

2 years ago, I stared searching for it, and after many futile attempts of trying to find it, I have come up with nothing. Now that I am 17, and have the will power to find love......

......This is where my situation comes in. Because of my lack of social activity, I am what people would call "shy". I can hold a good conversation, but then I get shy when talking about my personal life. But because this is the internet, and you have no Idea who I truly am (no offence [No, I'm not some evil dictator that wants to take over the world using a crack team of ninjas...]), I can open up here.

I believe I have found the person that contains the emotion I have been searching for most my life...In other words, I found a girl I love.

My situation is, is that I have no idea how to obtain this love from her...

...So, in conclusion, I am here to ask, what is the best way to confront my fears and obtain the final peace to my solitude.

In laymens terms for it to be more easily understood: I am far too shy to do this on my own, how should I approach her.

If you want to know any information as to help give advise, please feel free to ask.

I hope any of you can help my on this, and any form of help will be greatly appritiated.

Take care, and have a great day.

-Casval

Ok, im a little confused, but just try smiling at her, and if she smiles back, take it from there, just try and start out being friends, get talking, then you can develop the relationship!
Hope this helps, if you need to talk or want any more advice email me =) i'd love to help! x

Here's some information that might help...

I met her when I became a Teacher Assistant for her Drama 2 class, so we know each other pretty well, and I see her at least once every two days. When we do talk, we usualy just tell jokes and laugh, but on the downside, the most I've actualy talked to her was about 3 maybe 4 minutes.

I do get the inner feeling that she seems drawn to me, so hopefully she feels the same as I do to her.

how old is she?

Next time you see her, try talking to her a little bit more, and try and get to know her better, ask questions to find out more about her, find out if you have anything in common.

I'm not exactly sure how old she is...She is one grade under me (I'm a High School Junior, she's a Sophmore)...Perhaps that's one of the questions I should ask.

ok, i have no idea what they are, but yea, ask her questions like that, and about what she likes doing, and music she likes, see if you are into any of the same things, then take it from there! when are you going to see her next? x

Sophmore = 10th grade
Junior = 11th grade

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Probably tomarrow during school hours. Either a little after 09:00, or a little after 14:45 (9am, and 2pm). Like stated before, I don't get a whole lot of time around her, she is usualy talking with her friends.

I just finished writing a "love letter"...Maybe that's a good idea...

oh ok, sorry! Try going over to her, and say hello, and start talking! give her the "love letter" if you want to, if you think it will help, but think about it before you give it to her! x

It's the only thing I have been thinking about since I wrote it...

I just finished talking to my brother on the phone and he said...

"Oh, the letter? I think the best way doin' that is just talk for awhile, then before you leave for class or something, whip out that letter, and say somethin' like: "Oh, hey, this is for you." and simply walk off. Let her approach you, that's if you're seekin' thrills. If not, just be strong an' tell 'er that you love her. Plain and simple..."

That's the highlight of his advise. Sound good, or should there be some tweaks?