Raped

hey I'm Lucy and a little while ago i was raped, the police know and my parents know but my parents think it was all my fault and saying that i asked for it, and stuff, ui am also really embarrassed, i cut myself see and when people ask me why i am embarrassed to tell them the truth, most people dont believe me anyay because i am really ugly, who would wanna rape me right???

Aww! I'm sorry! I hope that things get better! I'm here if ya ever need to talk to me!
-Katie

hey i know how u feel , but u have 2 be strong ! u wernt asking 4 it , thers no such thing as asking 4 it. and ur not ugly ok!! im sorry urpaernts rnt being very suportive,but atleast them and the police now. u shouldnt cut yourself coz of this man i now hes corsed u alot of hurt but y punish urself it does nothing but get u addicted. u have 2 try and move on hun k. talke it threw i now u feel embaressed but u shouldnt. it was his fault not urs, mabe try tlk 2 councerla or sum1 u trust. ur da victim member he should be embaressed. im gald u have told sum1 i could never find the coridge but dats the firts step , take care , luv lid if u wana tlk add me 2 msn at
Vimto@veggie.eclipse.co.uk
luv lidxx

Hey, im sorry about what happened, it's really hard, for me it consumed me; it loomed over me and that was when i had support i can not start to imagine how to go through it without support. And although i have never seen u so i dont no if ur ugly or not, but most of the time it doesnt matter what u look like, they think ur just easy and they do it to u, they dont care what u look like, they just think ur easy. And like the person above me said, u can't ask for it, if the guys decide hes going to do it, he will do it.
Cutting isn't the answer, i used to cut for many, many years but ive now learned it doesnt help, if anything it makes the situation worse. I started seeing a counciller and it has helped an amazing amount, i suggest you try to do the same. Go see a counciller and please stop cutting, just get some help, they do help and you will feel much better. And dont listen to ur parents, they have NO idea what its like.
Hope your alright.
jess

Everytime someone makes a snarling comment to you about your looks and rape; tell them this: most rapist rape a girl not because of sexual desire, but because of the urge to feel powerful over a weaker person. I think 90% of rapes are because of this, NOT because of looks. I'm not sure if my statistic is correct, but I remember learning this last year.

Hey! Don't say you're ugly! This not true!
Everyone of us have something beautiful! You know once I was like you and I thougt I'm ugly but some guy said me: "There is nothing in human body that he need to be embarassed of" (Sorry if my translation has mistakes) And it helped me.
I made some little changes and I can say now that I look goood (anyway that what people say to me)! But still it more important what you have inside...

I'm really sorry about what happened to you...
and that your parents don't believe you.
The time will cure the wounds! You'll see...
If you need to talk just write me here your email...
Hugs

Lucy, that's terrible that you were raped. I can't believe your parents don't believe you...:( Is that why you started cutting? If so, then I have even better reasons why to stop, because you're letting the person who raped you "win," so to say. He raped you and now you're depressed and cut...Do you know what i mean?

Also, you shouldn't say you're ugly. Nobody is ugly, I mean it. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and even if you didn't have any outer beauty (which i don't believe), you still have your inner beauty.

Satuxxa

Honey trust me it wasn't your fault at all. I was raped when i was 15 and at first i thought it was my fault too. But its really something wrong with them. It has nothing to do with you. You did the right thing by telling your parents and the cops. and trust me take it from some one who has been cutting for years it doesnt get you anywhere. you will just look back and wonder why you did it. things will get better. feel better hun
~kaylee~