Bad turn of events.....

I posted a topic on here a while back about leaving my husband (annulment, we were married less than a year) because we're not in love and because I'm in love with someone else (haven't DONE anything yet tho lol).

I finally had the strength to do it.....when bad thing after bad thing started happening.

First, he was leaving one day to go live with his parents and apparently got robbed on the way home when his car broke down.....so he came back.

Now we lost literally almost EVERYTHING because of Hurricane Isabelle (house, things, name it.....we got THE WORST of the strom here in NC) and neither of us has a place to live.

So now we're looking for an apartment in VA together. Neither of us can afford one on our own. I feel trapped, stuck, hopeless.......

Meanwhile, the other guy is moving out of country to finish school (and is planning to come back to the states when he is done....I have no doubt in my mind that he will wait for me) but....now all this mess.....

If anyone has words of advice or anything of the sort, I would GREATLY appreciate it. I just sit around depressed all day like there's nothing left to it.........

Not to sound mean bc that is not what i want to do...but who do u honestly love? u seem to be so confused right now that u arent for sure what to do...im not one to tell u what to do but find out who u love and then talk to that person and see what is goin on...if u are married then u should honor and respect him sometimes things get old but that doesnt meant that u have to move on to another...u married him bc u love him not bc u had to...if u feel for him love him...if u dont then it wasnt a good idea to get married in the first place...as for the whole hurricane thing...i hope things go better for u and let others get involved and help u if u need to talk then im here for u!! ill listen to ne thing!! im all ears! GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!!

Thanks for responding to my post. There are so many confusing details to all of this, though, too many to list.

But I will say this.....we got married because I was pregnant at the time. Then I lost the baby. It wasn't exactly a romantic, wonderful relationship or anything but we thought it was what we had to do at the time.

He loves me dearly, I just don't feel that back for him. He knows this, but thinks it will come with time.

To top it all off, he is a diagnosed multiple personality disorder guy. When he warps into this crazy, scary man.....it is the most terrible thing to go through. I get emotionally torn to pieces every time he starts on me.

Well, enough of my sob story. Thanks again for reading.

DUDE!!

this was posted two years ago!

damn, I hate when people bring old shit up like this and act like the author of the post is still ALIVE...