So confused...

i agree with what they are sayin apart from getting another man,......havin a relationship on the rebound is the worst idea. this is cos ull end up goin out with this unsuspecting guy just to hurt ur ex for the shite way he treated u and all thats goin to happen is that ulll hurt urslef cos uklll still want ur ex and ull hurt ur enw guyy cos he can never live up to what u want him to be cos ur mind will be on ur ex. my advise wud be to have a really good chat with him...let all ur feelings out and basically ask wot the F uck hes playin at. if it doesnt work out between u two i suggest fillin ur scheduale with loads o things to do with ur mates...eg. pics, ice skating loads o dif stuff....call rnd for them and watch sum films or somwthing to take ur mind off o him. and then and only when u feel ready and over this guy do u start looking for a new man cos ull find one when u least expect it...i know thats sounds a bit cliche but its true!
take care and let us know wot ur goin to do
xxxLoUxxx

all i can say, is you have to talk to him. girl that's the only way. you have to get things out. if u still have feelings and u want all of it back tell him, i still have feelings for you and see wat happens, and if you dnt and u just wanna stop acting tht way around him, tell him it's already over, no use on flirting now...wats done has been. it all really depends on wat you want. maybe he still has feelings and is just as confused as you, u'll never knoe if you dnt talk to him about it.

hope it helped

i have a piece of advice that you are probably going to hate. leave him alone. forget about him. you said that you write poems and stories? the fact that you cant even write anymore is the deciding factor. if being with him makes you lose your inspiration or ability to write, then there isnt anything beautiful about it. when you love someone, you can write a poem about the way that they look when they sleep, you start to find inspiration in things you never noticed before. you see your life in a new perspective. its a beautiful thing, love...but if you cant even find it in you to write anymore than you have to leave. find someone who inspires and entices your inner soul...you know you can...you just have to be strong enough to say goodbye...

Kay:

We've all been there (I don't mean with your boyfriend!). There's nothing worse than caring for another and them not giving a damn. But, how fascinating they become for this reason. The 'treat 'em mean to keep'em keen' works everytime whether you're the one provoking the 'meaness' or receiving it. It does my fucking head in to be honest, the mind game thing, but there you go.