I need help with my boyfriend, what should I do?

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    Just out of curiosity, how old are you?

    "brake"
    -break

    Everyone flirts even when they're in relationships. The question is, is it harmless flirting or over-the-top?

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    Alright, I was asking your age because honestly if you are under 16 (or so) you are only thinking you're in love.

    To the flirting: honestly I wouldn't let it bother me unless it was more than just playful
    And when he does it.

    Do you see him do this? does he do it right in front of you or do you catch him doing it or hear about it?

    Also, if it's just meaningless hugs/hand touching/complimenting he probably doesn't even know that he's doing it

    But: if he's at the point where he's touching girls in more "feely" spots (small of the back, hips, waist, etc;) that would bother me. Also, depends on how his verbal flirting takes place

    Elaborate off of that and I'll tell you what I think

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    Dump him.

    Look it doesn't matter how much you guys have been through, it obviously doesn't mean that much to him.

    if he's telling other girls he "loves" them, that's not just flirting.
    If you told him to stop and he hasn't and then lies about it, he's never going to change and sooner or later he's going to prove unfaithful.

    If he's flirting like that to the point where he doesn't care if it hurts you or not, you obviously don't mean half as much to him as he does to you.

  • ~*^*~ longing to belong ~*^*~
    19 years ago

    I need help with my boyfriend, what should I do?

    answer: go into the love and romance section