My ex and my friend

  • Tainted Beauty
    19 years ago

    My best friend went out with my ex(who i still really loved) he dumped her and he said it was because of me...he didnt even know i knew about it. . .but he said he felt guilty about it. I wasnt really friends with the gilr he went out with anymore (we were kind of in a fight) but i was so upset when someone told me about it...but now that he dumped her i feel bad about it. . .and i think shes probably mad at me for it even though its not my fault...its not like i payed him to dump her or anything but i'm just wondering what you guys think about this...is this a good thing or a bad thing? (that he dumped her)

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    From reading this hun I have gained two facts

    1. You had a decent man
    2. She is not your friend

    He's great because at least after your relationship he bothered to care about your feelings and break up with her, even though he shouldn't have gone out with her in the first place, but he is a boy and they are visual creatures so what can you expect?

    She's not a friend actually far from it and you're stupid if you keep her in your life, cause I have no doubt she'd do it again to you. As a best friend SHE is the one obligated to you, to your feelings and your friendship n if she was a true friend, going out with the ex your still in love with wouldn't even be a thought...let alone a reality....

    GOODLUCK and sorry you're hurting