Why are you so blind?

I understand what you mean, but my bf and alot of my exs told me they loved me, and i believed them, and they NEVER ever got sex from me, so not all guys say 'i love you' just to get sex, they probably only say that if they think there is a chance they will get it!!

I totally agree with both of you! It really upsets me that guys can hurt girls so bad like they do. I mean, I am pregnant, and the father of my child is one of the greatest guys I know...but he told me he loved me...and I fell for it. Since finding that I am pregnant, it's brought us so much closer...and now we are in love...but if we weren't...I couldn't have lived with it. Girls...don't mean to sound like a parent...but please do be carefull...guys aren't always what they seem! Take care all, Sarah-Lou x

Some people only hear and see what they want...
It's an old line but, that doesn't mean it isn't true.

I guess, some girls are so deeply in love with their partner that they force themselves to believe things that are so obviously not true. It's kind of sad really. Not in the pathetic way. It must hurt a lot when you find out the person you've given everything to doesn't love you.