can any one give me some advise?

hey everyone i was just wondering if you could help me with something, my grandma and grandad split up ages ago, and since then she has a new partner. he's really nice but some times he can be to nice. if know ones around he will pinch my bum or kiss my neck or on the lips and put his tounge in my mouth. i hate it and he recently tried to feel my breast and said to me 'if only you were a bit older' i got really scared and went to my room. i hate it and i can't stop it!!! he always holdsme really tight against him so i usually can't free myself. i really dont know what to do, i dont want to tell any one coz i dont want to hurt my grandma coz she seems really happy with him please help me or give me some advise it would be greatly appreciated

i really think you should tell your grandma, or next time he does it ask him what hes doing, and tell him to stop, if the doesnt work then you really have to tell someone, it might hurt your grandma at the time, but he cant go on doing this to you and expect you to be ok with it, email me if u want to talk more!!!! xox

ok thats never good, how old are you?

HEY- i had something close to that happen to me and ive never told anyone (in fact this is the first time ive metioned it) and i still get very scared and have nightmares when i think about it. the way i got away from it was i was never alone with that person and he actualy came to where i was sleeping so i stoped sleeping over there.
if you cant bring yourself to tell anybody JUST AVOID IT!!!!!!!!!!
LOVE YA- im always here!! ~M2H~

Don't avoid it. Tell someone. I realize it's hard, but do you really think you're grandmother would be happy being with a man like that, if she knew he was a man like that? He sounds sick. You really need to tell her, and if she doesn't believe you, take it to the police. Put yourself first. Your health and mental stability is more important that your grandmother being hurt or angry.
~Freak~

thanx every1, by the way i'm 15 this year.
i try and avoid it as much as possible but he usually sits up and waits for me to say good night to him before he will leave the kitchen. whilst i usually just stay in my room all night sometimes i have to go to the toilet or wateva and can't avoid him! as for telling my grandma i dont think i could, i no i should but i just can't!!! i recently lost my other grandma and i just can't bear hurting the only one i have left!!! i always think to myself if this is what he's doing to me what might he be doing to other ppl or my grandma for that matta and i always worry about her, yet i still can't tell her!! i don't no what to do!! i know i should tell someone but maybe its better not to worry people about something like this?!?!
thankyou all so much for ur imput!

I'm with Ashley.
~Freak~

First: go to word and copy your post. You'll be surprised at how many errors there are.

Sorry, I can't help these things.

Second: Tell your grandmother. I'm assuming you're living with them right? Believe me, her grieving over a lost relationship will be worth you avoiding rape. (which is most likely what it's going to result in)

Not to mention: If you cared about your grandmother that much, you wouldn't want her being with such an awful person, would you?