Love or stocker?

  • Tainted Beauty
    19 years ago

    I REALLY love this guy...and we've been through alot ...i know almost everything about him and i remember everything that he's ever told me and im so excited everytime i see him and i count down the days lol i was wondering what you guys think...is it love or am i a stalker?:P

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    "bene"
    been

    and I did notice you spelled "stalker" "stocker" in the title...
    that really bothered me.

    Well, how old are you?

    ok, I have to go, I shall return to finish my post...

  • Tainted Beauty
    19 years ago

    Oh...sorry about the mistakes...unforunatly i cant fix the title but i did fix the "been"

  • Tainted Beauty
    19 years ago

    . . .just because I'm 12 doesnt mean i dont love him. . .no offense but you do not know that situation so it's not up to you to judge if its "hormones" or not

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    hahahah awwwwwwww this is coot...

    Sweetheart, trust me, when you get older you will realize, IT'S NOT LOVE

    you're twelve years old for goodness sakes!

    it does all depend on the person's definiton of love, but i seriously...don't think someone can love another romantically at that age.

    Ashley: shut up.

    Anyways, this is typical sixth grade stuff, you're not a stalker lol. i remember (oooooooooh back in the day...) sixth grade me and all of my little elementary friends would draw pictures of us making out with our dream guys and getting passes just so we could walk by their class rooms, lol.

    I think it's cute. And no, you're not a stalker, every girl goes through this :)

    (see if you were like 15...then that would be a problem)

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    ah sixth grade... i was popular back then because i had a "boyfriend" who was 2 years older than me :). notice the quotation marks around boyfriend. around that age there is no chance of having a serious loving relationship. those are the cold hard facts. your hormones are just starting to bubble to the surface and therefore you want to test out those hormones. it's perfectly natural.
    -A

  • Brookeღ
    19 years ago

    I don't think you are a stalker! When I think back to the 6th grade I remember we were still writing letters. Then you would have your friend give it to the boy. It would say will you go with me yes or no or maybe so circle one. Then we would wait and hope he circled yes. At 12 years old it was not love. It might feel that way now but when you get older and think back you might not even like him. At that age a long relationship might last a month if that. A lot of the younger kids think a long relationship is just a few months. Wait until you are older and think about 9 years or even the rest of your life with that person. I am a lot older and have been through this. I spent 9 years with a guy and it didn't work out. Thank God we didn't get married. You can't force a person to like you so if you think it's not something he wants drop it. If a guy does not like a girl and you put pressure on him he will run from you as fast as he can go. If you don't let it go then it will turn into stalking.

  • [She.Falls.Asleep]
    19 years ago

    You can fall in love at any age... I can't prove it, but I think you can. What really bothers me is when people say you can and then, like when my friend said that for the first time, I aske when some one can fall in love, and she didn't have an answer. So if she gave me no particular age then I don't believe there is a certain age. Everyone has different views though which is fair enough. Whether you're in love or not is up to you, no one else. Same as I'm not sure if I've ever been in love but maybe you know you have... Only you really know. Anyway, Take care, Elle x

  • Tainted Beauty
    19 years ago

    haha! lol btw im not in "6th grade"

  • Tainted Beauty
    19 years ago

    JJ:Sadly...I have gone out with him :( we were really close and i think youre right it did kinda ruin it (but that wasnt the only thing) but yha thanks for the advice everyone