i need advice plz!!!!

I recently broke up with the love of my life. I didn't get a reason and the only one i could come up with is that he used me to get what he wanted and then split. We are now friends after a tense period of me being awful to him for what he did. He sent me a letter of apology stating how he was wrong for breaking up with me and that he had a lot on his mind with his exams and family. (i would of tried to help but i didnt know) and he apologised for treating me so bad. He is now going out with this other girl who i know will soon dump him (i'm not jealous, really, cos i'm friends with them both) but he seems to get jealous when i get hugs of this other guy in our classes. He always breaks it up and hits the other guy over the head with a book or sumthing in a playful way to get him away from me. I'm so confused becouse altho i love him to bits, i'm trying to get over him. How can i when i get so many mixed signals. Please help me people, i don't know what to do and times running out cos we only have 6 weeks of year 11 left. Please help me!! Lotsa luv, Gem xx

okay ive kinda been in this situation before. me and my ex stayed friends and it really hurt me to even look at him cos i still loved him and he hurt me so much but i managed to press that down and still be friends. he dint like it when i was with anyone else even tho he had a bird and he did apolgise too. however, i dont think this guy wants to get bk with u. i know thats harsh and i never wanted to hear it either but in 6weeks ur not goin to see him and ull b able to move on without a constant reminder of him there. i found it hard cos i wanted to get bk wi my ex and was unsure if he wanted to get bk wi me and i was so confused. but me and him had an argument and i relaised he didnt and wasnt worth it. im not sayin have an argument but try and seperate urself from him and then u can move on. thats wot helped with me. i still see my ex and still chat cos we started talkin agen but i dont feel the same about him now. we got emotinal distance now and we can both move on! its for the better trust me!
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Thats just it, We run two sites together, he chats on MSN all the time and we going the same college. Plus my best friend is going out with his best friend and to top that off, he is first cousins with my best friend too! My life is over.

okay so hes in the picture a lot...well my suggestion would be to build up a really busy schedual....busy urself with goin out with mates, reviseing and loads of other stuff...try and get him out of ur mind and put all ur new energy into something else. a hobby perhaps? dont talk to him on msn....make out ur busy if he wants to talk. u are really going to have to try and emotinaly distance urself. that doesnt mean cuttin urself off from him completly but for the time being i think it wud help if u kept ur distance until uve move on a lil. hope this is helping ???
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I think you have a good point! I can show him what he's missing by getting back to my happy-go-lucky self. Make him sorry he ever broke up. You've helped a lot! Thankyou so much. Can't wait till school tomorrow and put my plan into action. Muahahahaa. Lol, Lotsa luv and hugz, Gem xox

u go gal!!!! show him wot hes missing! thats the spirit! if u need any more help ill always listen! take care and keep smiling luvi!!!!
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