Can anyone give me some advice plz!!!

Well like 3 yrz ago I went with my mom to visit my sext door neighbors. My mother went with this girl to see something in the house and tha guy was talking to me in tha kitchen. Then he asked me to sit on his lap and I did. Then he started toutching me innapropreately (sp) down below...and then he frenched me even though I tried to pull away. When my mom came back into the room she didn't say anything about me sitting on his lap (and he stopped kissing me so she didn't know). I never told her...but I also never went back to their house...and he has been in another state (due to his job) for the past 3 (or so) months, and I havn't thought about this for almost like 3 yrs but now I'm thinking about it again. What should I do? I mean this happened like 3 yrs ago...but...

Well, it happened so someone should know about it. You should have told someone then, but I can understand why you didn't. If it's on your mind now, I THINK (my opinion) that the only way to get over it and let it go would be to let it out. Tell your Mother.

I hope everything works out for you! Take Care!!

Yes, I agree with Natalie. If you tell someone, like your mother, it will probably solve a lot of internal conflict. It won't go away obviously, but you won't think about it as much. Someone deserves to know anyway, in the case that he comes back, your mother can protect you from it ever happening again.
~Freak~

Well, my mother saw me acting a little wired after this happened so she asked me what happened and I told her that nothing happened. She told me to swear that nothing happened and i did...but I felt totally guilty. If I tell her now what actually happened I don't know if she would ever truse me again because I lied about something so big and I don't want to loose her trust.
Oh and he has come back like 1 month ago and I've tried to avoid him...but I can see the way he looks at me and I don't know what he is thinking...but I know I don't want to know. And Yet I don't want to loose my mothers trust in me I don't want anything else to happen...so...

So he is back....so now there is a different issue. What if it happens again or what if next time it's worse?

Trust is not an issue when it comes to something so serious. She will understand why you lied. Any GOOD mother would. She'll know the reasons you hid it and were scared to tell her. Just tell her, it will make you feel a lot better. And think in the long run it may actually save a lot of trouble.

Your mom will not be like that I don't think. I don't know your mother, but I'm pretty sure she would understand. It's a hard thing to tell. Like Natalie said, if he is back it is a whole nother issue. You could be in danger of it happening again. And if you have any sisters or brothers even, or any cousins, they might somehow go to his house, it might happen to them. And who knows, if he did it to you, he might, most prbably, done it to many others. You have a chance to save them and youself by telling your mother and the authorities. Even if it happen 3 years ago, he can still get charged. You seem to remember the details pretty well too, that's good for police. Good luck, I hope you take the advice.
~Freak~

I really do want to tell...but I'm just afraid. I know that would be the best thing to do though...But I just don't know how. Though soon I probibly will tell...I just need to think of how I am going to tell.
And I do not have any other brothers or sisters and I only have one sousin and she livs in another city so...

Yeah tru...but the part I forgot to mension is that he'z come on to my mom before and asked her to go to a hotel with him. She turned him down...But I don't think she needz the burdon of him after me as well as after her. SO I know I need to tell her I just don't kno...

Let me try to make it make sence...and I'll give the short version...

Well like 3 yrz ago me and my mom went over to my neighbors house. My mom went into the other room and he told me to sit on his lap. Then he started toutching me innapropreately and he frenched me even though I tried to pull away. Then like a few montha later he had to move because of his job but a month ago when he came back and started hitting on my mom. I don't want to tell her what he did to me but I can't stop thinking about it. I do not have any brothers or sisters or even cousind (well couzinz that live close by) so thats not a problem. But...

Yeah...She doesn't need to worry about him harrassing me because she already has her own problems with her...but I feel like i need to tell her...Even though I really don't want to.

If all of this in fact DID happen then you NEED to tell your Mother....Period, end of discussion. Quit crying about it and tell her.

Tell authorities, and your mother.

If you don't want to do it for your sake, think of others.
Do you have any idea how many other children he could have molested by now?
Most molesters have held victims in as many numbers as the hundreds.

If you don't turn him in, imagine how many others could be affected.