Need Some Advice To Help With Best Friend

  • Ericka
    19 years ago

    Me and my best friend have been friends for 7 years and we have been though everything. I mean we have been though everything. I was in a relationship for alittle over 2 years and i find out that my boyfriend is cheating on me with my best friend and i forgave her and we talked it out and wored it all out. Now, I'm in a great relationship. My boyfriend is black and i am white. and my bestfriends FAMILY don't agree with it. Yeah you heard it right. her family don't agree with it and now her mom has decided to tell us that we are no longer allowed to hang out anymore because i am in an interacical relationship. My best friend is 19 and she is letting her mom tell her who she can and can't hang out with. ,but what thats not the funny part. my best friend is talking to a black guy also. but of coarse her family can hate me for it ,but she is too good to tell her family she is talkin to a black guy. i think it's stupid. I'm sorry ,but i'm not leaving him because her family don't agree with it. ,but i need help on what to do becasue she is my best friend if 7 years. She is everything to me. I don't know what to do. I've tried to write her a poem ,but it hurts too much to put my feeling out because i know her family hates me and she is going to just not care bout me if her family hates me. even if it is a stupid reason. So PLEASE help me.
    e-mail me at... rickaluvsya@yahoo.com
    IM Me at (aol) rickalovesyou
    Thanks So Much! -Ericka

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    have you tried talking directly to ur best friends family? explaining how you feel? or maybe you could write them a really long letter explaining tht u love ur boyfriend but u also love ur best friend.

    Hope everything works out, 7 years is a long time, u and ur best friend will survice this if ur as close as i think you are

    xxxxxxxx good luck xxxxxxxx

  • Ericka
    19 years ago

    Thanks To You Both. You Have Both Helped Me. I Don't Even Know Who You Are And Yall Are Helping Me With My Best Friend. Thanks. This Site Makes Me Feel Like I Have An Online Family.

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    Sorry to say but it sounds like more heartache than its worth hun

  • Ericka
    19 years ago

    hey everyone. thanks for the help. and so everyone knows. i talked to my best friend for the first time in 3 weeks yeaturday May 18. I was so excited. she asked me if i left my boyfriend and i told her no because i'm not dropping someone i love because her family don't like him. i asked her if she would like me to drop her because his family didn't like her. but thanks so much for yalls help. i'm really thankful i can talk to people other than people i know. i believe yall can help me more because yall don't know how everything works. thanks. -Ericka