Time for a new one.

Alright.
This is a thread for people who give advice.Not people who critisize others.

Listen up--
Alot of people cut on here.Whether they're telling the truth or not,they need help.Dont you think if they want attention and they're using cutting as an excuse means somethings wrong?
So this thread is for people who want advice need to come.

Ive seen it so many times people calling it stupid.Or naive.Or immature.Exc.--But fact is.Its NOT.

There are so many explanations why people cut.You see them on here all the time.So the people who call it naive,or stupid,Need to listen.
Help someone.If you cant.Then dont.Dont say anything to them.
Because making fun of someone ONLY makes matters fucking worse.

What im saying is--Cutting is not a funny matter.Nor is it a stupid,or humiliating matter.Its a Serious matter.People do it for serious reason.Take that into consideration..

And if you plan on making fun of someone.Or giving your "smarts" on cutting.Go somewhere else.

Dont post unless its positive.Or you're trying to help someone.
-.:Coldsadtears:.-

--And if I dont say it on here.I know ill get all these comments asking.

Yes.I -Would be classified as a cutter.
Happy?

"Ive seen it so many times people calling it stupid.Or naive.Or immature.Exc.--But fact is.Its NOT."

Says who? Because if it's "fact" like you are claiming then I would like to read the literature you found the "FACTS" in.

Cutting is generally a moment of madness, which the body becomes addicted to and is incredibly hard to stop, Most people who self harm are not proud of it, but different people find different ways to cope, and although people do not believe it, it becomes like a release, some also cut because they have such a low self image that they think they deserve it... xx

I never said it wasnt selfish.
I do have alot of talent,and I do have a life.I never said I wanted to kill myself.Yet it is suicide.I could kill myself by doing it.
But what some of you've already said,you dont know how hard it is to stop.
And I dont do it everyday of my life.Only when I get seriously depressed or upset.
I cant control my anger,and I cant take it out on anyone,or anything else besides myself.So I cut.

And the person who wants to know the facts,I did a report on suicide,And depression.It is proven in the statistics that more than half of girls who are depressed cut.And its an addict..Its been scientifically PROVEN that suicide,and depressed persons take comfort in harming thereself.
And there is a plus.If im hurting myself,Im not hurting anyone else.I may be hurting them by seeing me this way.But thats it.
So dont even get an attitude with me,because I know good and well what Im talking about.And how dare you say ANYTHING to me when this is suppost to be a help thread.

------------------Some of you whom have never hurt themself before,including cutting, dont understand people who cut at all.I CANT help it.I cant find any other way to please myself on a bad day.And like I said I only do it about once a month at the most.
I havnt cut in 2 months until yesterday.And Im trying to stop.I see how bad it looks on myself,and I dont want anyone finding out.I dont do it to get attention,because I hide it as much as possible.

And some of you dont have problems at all.I do.Alot of people on here do.So dont tell me im stupid,or selfish,or naive because I do it.Its a feeling some of us get,that we cant stop.I cant help that I do it,but I sure as HELL dont need some of you running your mouth at me for doing it.Being mean and stupid isnt helping me stop.It just shows that most of you DONT understand.

And those who think its wrong,all you're doing is making it worse to everyone saying how stupid and naive it is.Undoubtly you dont think that,or you're try to be helping someone rather than making them feel worse.

So dont you think you're a bit stupid too?

i thaink weve gone over this time and time again....... why cant we stop and leave them the h.e.l.l. alone!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

No, actually Shanna, I think you're stupid. You said and I quote,

"Ive seen it so many times people calling it stupid.Or naive.Or immature.Exc.--But fact is.Its NOT"

There is no FACT written any where that cutting is NOT stupid or immature. In my OPINION it is. I don't give a damn how many depressed teens cut. My question to you was to show me the literature that says it is NOT stupid! There is none. Cutting is stupid and there are MANY other ways to relieve stress and pain. Ask someone if you can't think of any yourself. I am here to make my point as you are. And quite frankly I can post any where I want....So deal with it. My life is great so I am not depressed and though I don't understand what you go through on a day to day basis I gaurantee "cutting" is NOT the answer. Cutting does NOT help any situation. You have no clue what you are talking about.