duz it help?

hey every1, i was just wondering if talking to some one (i.e. counciler ect) about your problems really helps?
i have been cutting for a while and have been feeling pretty depressed lately and i don't know wether to go and c someone about it. i confided in a teacher that i really trust recently and she put in a referal to c one of the school councilers, she said that she will come and get me once a week for 'counciling sessions' i guess you could call them but that was almost 3 weeks ago now and i don't know wether to go to her again or wait till she comes to me? i have been putting off going and seeing her for ages now coz i think i'm scared of what she's going to do, no -one but my teacher knows about the 'cutting' not even my friends or family, so yea basically i was just wondering if it helped talking about your problems and if you have suggestions about going to the skewl couciler
thanx heapz
xoxoxo

darl i think you need to be ready to talk coz otherwise you wont benefit much from counselling and yes i one way you should but always make sure your comfortable with who you talk to i truly understand where your coming from i only just decided to go to counselling and i will b honest it isnt easy knowing you need extra help but once your in there its ok but also i think its a great idea if you can talk to any friends or family just so they r there for support and comfort if you want to talk more especially bout cutting and why your doing it you can email me coz i hav been there my email is misia_malachi@yahoo.com.au

i personally found that talked to someon didnt work but maybe thats bc i didnt tell her everything...i used to cut alot and i went to see a school counselor but i have a bad past and i couldnt tell her everything so t wasnt a relife to finally tell somone bc other than me nd some of my friends no one nos the real reason i cut. if u can tell them everything i think it would be good but if u cant theres almost no point

Oh Lord, here we go again.

(What exactly does "duz" mean?)

oh for fucks sake natalie leave this forum ur driving me insane

Yes Mommy...what ever you want. Kiss my ass. I don't give a damn if I'm driving you insane. I'm so "evil" according to you people....so this makes me feel better.....I'm driving you in sane, yes that's excellent. For fuck's sake Georgi shut the fuck up!

ok!

Oh look another cat and doggy fight. get over it people. someone asks a legitimate question and all you can do is fight or correct spelling mistakes. if you guys wanna fight, make a freakin post about it.

As for the question, it does all depend on whether or not you are ready to talk. And once you are ready that means you must be ready to tell the therapist everything about yourself and share your every secret. After that, it all depends on the therapist whether or not it works. You have to be comfortable with the person as well, if you don't like them, or you can't connect, i doubt that anything will be solved. Search around for the right one, dont think that you are stuck with whatever one you get, because you arnt. good luck
~Freak~

Oh excuse me Freak....The Psychologist. HAHAHA

Apparently I am selfish, self-centered, ignorant, a bitch, and all other names I forgot these lames kids have been calling me because I speak my mind. That's cool....you called me a cool chick. That's cool. lol