the guy my best friend likes likes me

  • ღ Christina ღ
    19 years ago

    i read ur problem and it is simialar to the one im going through! Except i am in ur freinds position! it depends on the situation:

    .Do you like this guy?
    .Does your friend like any other guys?

    And she probably flirts with other guys to show that she is over him! Ig you dont want to hurt ur friends feelings u shudn't go out with him, but dont try to hook them up either because its like forcing love!

  • Christina Gomes
    19 years ago

    well yea ppl gave u similar things but I think personally talk to ur friend. I mean u like him he likes u--thts where the pieces fit. and if she's really your friend she'll understand, and if she doesn't that means most likely she's not worth it. but i knoe wats happening with her its tht she's his ex and she hasn't gotten over him. another thing u should do is try and hook her up w/ someone else, help her move on. but my best advice is just talk to her. tell her what's going on cuz if she doesn't knoe well then ur stuck and w/e u do will make u look bad...plus if u rlly like this guy u shouldn't give him up, cuz sumtimes the guy is probably the better part...not the friendship----BUT! dnt listen to me, cuz i dnt knoe the whole situation and i dnt wanna screw everything up lol.

    But really talk to her, and tell her u wanna go out with and whatnot. see what happens...

    GOOD LUCK!!

    hope any of tht helps!

  • Christina Gomes
    19 years ago

    well i think bf2 has a point...u probably shouldn't flirt with phonefriend tht much. i mean..the guy this is abt lets call him luverboy lol really likes u or at least it seems tht way since he's willing to wait for u...which is an extremely cute/sweet thing. lol. and if u're not together w/ phonefriend it really shouldn't matter just be like to him i like us being friends..but u have to understand it's probably all we'll ever be(say it in a nice way tho). and then of course talk to bf1 abt the whole thing and if she's ok u have nothing to worry abt...and if she's not okay with it...u're gonna have to choose....

    who's more important? luverboy or bf1??