break up? or....

  • michelle
    19 years ago

    what do you do if you want to break up with someone you still love? that when you finally see that it has to be done because of differences, you cant? i need help

  • michelle
    19 years ago

    the reason why it should be over is because we are total opposites, we cant agree on anything, we like doing different things, we have a really hard time undersanding eachother, the only thing that we agree on is that we love eachother. i hope that helped, i would really like to know what you think. thank you very much.

  • InMyWorld
    19 years ago

    why do you guys love eachother? try and figure that out, because that might help you understand eachother. you guys really need to talk. how well do you know eachother? the more you talk, the better you'll understand him, and when you do...then you'll know whether you love him, or whether you're gonna give him the friend type of love.

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    How can you love someone you can't agree on anything with, don't have anything in common with or are struggling to understand, that's far from the love I know. I agree on most issues with my partner, we enjoy alot of the same things and understand each other extremely well...to me you should be revaluting whether this is a case of love, lust, or plain old infatuation...

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    i think unlucky charms is right...u need to sit down and think of all the reasons y u love him and why u wana break up. then u need to weigh up wheether u can work this out or not. i think by what u have said so far its not going to work but i think u need to talk to him, explain how u feel, that u are two too differnt people and its not going to work, and if u wana stay friends tell hm that too. then u mite b ale to agree on one thing after all..let us know
    xxx take care xxxLoUxxx

  • Barbara Jean
    19 years ago

    do what makes you happy. it will hurt.. but do what your heart wants.

  • michelle
    19 years ago

    thank you soo much guys. we agree on some things, but we have different ways of expressing ourselves to eachother. he likes to wait till the last minute on things and i like to get it done and talked about. i dont know. i do know that i love him, this isnt infatuation or lust because we're planning a wedding, we've been together for a while. its like no matter what he does to make me mad, i cant pisture myself without him. the only thing that would make me break up with him would be if he cheated

  • Janie
    19 years ago

    if you love him you'll work it out.... if your "iffy" about it, then it's not gonna work.... it's horrible to end a relationship over a fight, or petty things...