Need advice...

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    okay i think u should both have a cooling off period. by this i mean that u should say to him look, at the moment we are getting under each others feet and pissing each other off and i think that we should just keep our distances for a while....then after uve sorted yourself out and ready to be friends with him (getting over this anger and hurt) then i think ull be bale to be friends. this also gives him chance to realise that ur not wanting to get back with him and maybe in this time hell be able to realsie that and move on too!
    hope this helps
    xxxLoUxxx

  • Christina Gomes
    19 years ago

    Ok well two parts. I know what it's like to be friends with an ex. I'm going thru tht now. And if u WANT to get over him and not be with him anymore...completely ignore. if you're his friend it'll be harder for to move on. or just find all the things u hate abt him...cuz the only thing tht can defeat love is hate.

    ok 2. If u still love him...and u're just afraid he'll hurt you u need to yell at him. i knoe it seems drastic but thts wat u should u do. it rlly helps..wen i did i started crying but if you're stronger than me u wnt. let out all ur anger and talk to him. the only way it'll work is if u talk and settle things. he cnt just be better as a person if he doesn't knoe wat he's doing wrong.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I only read this last post above me....so I don't know what has gone on up there. But concerning the post above....BOTH! lol Have both...what's stopping you? You're young, 'play the field.' Don't be stuck down with one guy. I got into a serious relationship when I was 15 and we're still together. I love my hunny and all but I missed out on a lot of things! A LOT! I never dated or hung with friends...nothing! Believe me .....it's BORING!

    I'll tell you just like he tells me.... Be Pimpin' lol
    Do your thing!!

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    You should just do it....it's fun!

  • Becky Mains
    19 years ago

    Props to Nada. thats EXACTLY what i said. see im not the only one who thinks that way. well you already know what my opinion is on this situation. he doesnt deserve you. he thinks your some desperate girl who will come back to him when he wants you. and we all know that your not like that. you deserve so much better

  • Becky Mains
    19 years ago

    dont. not yet atleast. im saying get over your ex(we all know you need too) get to know the new guy. but dont fall to fast when you two dont really know eachother cause i dont want you to get your heart broken again