Can any of the girls please help me

Some of you might remember that I was trying to give these poems to a girl who I have really strong feelings for. Anyway some of my mates who know her quite well and who talk to her alot because they are in some of her lessons gave her them without saying they were from me. After a week she found out they were from me and nothing much happened for a while. My mates tried to get me to talk to her but I am really scared I'll mess up and do something stupid and ruin any chance of her liking me at all. She has said to them that she wants to speak to me and find out about my personality, she knows who I am now, before she just knew my name now she knows who I am and I don't know what to do. She got one of my mates to send me a note and in it she wrote "thanks for the poems they were nice" so what should I do?

Yeah, everyone is telling me that I have to talk to her and I try to find excuses but I know deep down that I really need to talk to her and when I get ready to talk to her I see her and all of the confidence I get to tell her just disappears when I see her and her mates I just lose all of my confidence. I guess the main reason this happens is because I like her really bad and I don't want her to say she doesn't like me the same way I like her and I don't want to be humiliated infront of everyone, especially my mates and her mates, because some of her best mates sit infront of me in some of my classes.

I wrote another 2 poems for her and I included my MSN adress so do you think if she really does want to speak to me she will talk to me over MSN?

Cute...

Talk to her - you won't regret it.

Just be honest and be yourself :o)

Thanks for helping me and I will try to speak to her but she is one of the more popular girls in the school because she can talk to anyone and I'm not one of the most popular guys in the school because I am extremely shy so do you think I would actually have a chance with her?

Hey N,
Anyone can have a chance with anyone. I read those posts, and I agree with everyone else: go talk to her. After all, you won't loose anything, and you might find out that she's really interested in you. Or if she doesn't like you or whatever, atleast you built up the courage to talk to her. If she does get interested in you though, you'll never have to regret the fact that you didn't even ask her.
Satuxxa

I have another 2 poems to send to her explaining how I feel and I think I was scared before because I didn't know how she would react but after reading the note she sent me it doesn't seem like anything extremely bad would happen so that has calmed me down abit.

Hey talk to her.
its better to know she doesnt like you than to spend your whole life wondering.
and then if you ever like another girl you know that you have the courage to ask.

*~M2H~*

you really should talk to her. I mean it's adorable tht u wrote poems abt her...geez i'd be dying w/ flattery if a guy wrote on for me...but yea...u should talk to her. get to knoe her and hang out and stuff. something mite happen...

really though...What have you got to lose?

~!Christina!~

yeha, u should talk to her. just try to be afriend for the first time, not more. and later u can start coming closer and closer. it will work. belive me. it works 4 everybody! just try not to worry. i used to be shy too, but then smth happened, i don't even know what, but i'm not nervous anymore whan i'm talking to guys i like. just try to think about smth else, whne u'r talking to her.

I was so close to goin up to her today, i was waiting for her with three of my mates and then some teacher shouted at us because we shouldn't have been where we were and we had to leave and then I walked past her and she kind of ran at the side of me but she was quite far away from me and then she started talking to a teacher but not about me and my mates said when she saw me she smiled, that was just before I walked past her. After lunch the firebell went off during our last lesson and when we were waiting to go back in she was skipping around and the reason I am scared to talk to her is because of her friends.

Talk to her silly goose!!! :)

I really want to talk to her and I would try go over to her if I was by myself but not with her friends with her, I would even go over to her if my mates were with me because she knows most of them, she knows afew of them quite well but I really wouldn't feel comfortable talking to her with her friends around and I don't know if she would feel comfortable talking to me if my friends were around so I would try to talk to her by herself.

So do it!! Just walk up to her and talk to her. To make the situation less weird get all your friends that she knows and you all walk up to her while she's with all of her friends. This way her friends are distracted by your friends and you can say hey to her....It will work!!!!!! Do it! Tell me what happens!!! You got me curious now!!!

Thanks, and I guess Ill have to talk to her sometime and I'll try again tomorrow. My mates who know her said that she said she was flattered by the poems and wants to speak to me so I doubt she'd do anything bad to me would she? And what about her mates?

I wrote this for her:

All I want to do
Is talk to you
I nearly did yesterday
But when I was near you I felt so far away

Whenever I get a chance to speak to you
You are never by yourself
And everyday since you found out about me
My love for you has grew

I would speak to you
If you were by yourself
I heard that because I haven’t spoke to you
I am annoying you
And that’s the last thing I want to do

If you want to speak to me
I will speak to you
But I want us to be by ourselves
Because I can’t talk about this kind of stuff in front of anyone else

What do you think?

Well, I can understand why she's getting a little irritated.

Change "grew" to "grown" please, and talk to her. When she's with a group of her friends, just wait politely for them to break apart, then assert yourself. Ask her out somewhere. Know where you want to take her though and make clear exactly what you want to do (unless it involves taking her clothes off, or touching her, or anything, girls don't tend to like that), and when, you might have to be flexible on the when. Try to center the activity around something you would both enjoy.

yeah, i agree with Nada. just do it. if you will start talking to her, either she will walk with u away, or her friends will do that. believe me. just start talking about something neutral at first, and then slowly go to the thing you wnat to talk with her about. and everything will be fine.
~Lyudmila~

Things have just gone terribly wrong, I asked one of my mates to give her that poem an I wrote it on paper that I shaded in pink and cut into a heart shape. When my mate gave her it she ran to her mates and showed them, only they were talking to a teacher, my form tutor, who is a teacher for one of her subjects and what I thought would happen was that she would read it and either not do anything if she doesn't like me or try to go away from her friends to talk to me but now my form tutor knows about them and I don't know if the girl is annoyed because some teachers found out and I think alot of people in my year have found out about it too.

i must say this whole things sounded a little dodgy to me by the sounds of it. if she hasnt really expressed how she feels, maybe shes too shy, or is just plain not keen. sorry ai. ask her upfront and get it off your chest. or get her number and send her a messege saying you like her and ask her to reply. thats what i did. if its a no, then at least its not as embarrasing and you can try moving on.

peace brother.

bunny

Well today nothing out of the ordinary happened apart from three guys who I know, not very well but I do know them to speak to asked me if I wrote love letters to her and I just tried changing the subject and they know I like her anyway. Oh and my 2 mates who gave her the stuff for me are annoyed that I won't speak to her because she thinks it's them who fancy her now.