hurting someone :(

  • daisy
    19 years ago

    I was just in this exact same position...I was with my boyfriend for 6 months and I realized that I didn't love him as much as I thought I did...when I had to break up with him it was really hard because he loved me so much...he even talked about marrying me. but I did what I had to do.
    You have to listen to your heart. You can't stay in a relationship you don't want to be in and if he really, truly loves you he'll just want you to be happy. No matter what happens he's gonna end up hurting. If you stay with him to avoid hurting him you'll be living a lie and you'll hurt him anyway.
    just tell him exactly what is going on. be honest. everything will turn out alright...
    good luck
    -daisy

  • Barbara Jean
    19 years ago

    doesnt it suck that you love someone and they dont love you back

  • InMyWorld
    19 years ago

    angelina, i read your profile...is the reason you're breaking up with him because you are in love with someone else? if so...mb you should have broken up with him when you felt it with the other person...or else you're not being completely honest with your bf when you say its not working.

  • LoUIse
    19 years ago

    angelina..well for my advice...u should tell him d truth coz wat really hurts is that when u let him think dat u still love him even if u dont..juz be urself!!! well u should be honest wid ur bf...coz its kinda unfair if he's honest wid u nd u're not...well if he rilly loves u he should let u go..thats what u call love...