I need advice...=-/

Well...i think im a bad person becuz i went out w/ this guy twice. and broke up w/ him twice. yet he still really cares abt me. he told me too...and explained it pretty damn well...i was on the phoine and he went frantic wen i told him it wasn't working out...and he really wanted to make it work...but i dnt knoe how....and he still acts like we're friends...and i wanna knoe wat i should do. cuz i dnt wanna be his friend...i knoe i'll end up w. him again--and breaking his heart again......i need help...

Tell him that...that's all i can say.

well...why dont u want to be wid his friend?? maybe he's juz deeply inlove wid u that's why it is okay for him if he got a heartbroke or sumthing... maybe he CAN'T be ur bf but he CAN be urfriend or even best friend!!

You've tried twice to make it work; why not settle for friends or something a little less drastic?

I personally think, if you try it for the 3rd time you're just prolonging the inevitable - which is permanent break up.

well if you knew that you were going to get back with him then why did you break up with him. its wrong to go back with someone just because they have alot of feelings for you... its how you feel that should matter the most. i think you need time alone, without him at all, to rili reflect about how your relationships been going and if you really want him as your special friend or maybe theres someone else there... youll never know...