What Should I Do? PLEASE RESPOND!

  • uh
    21 years ago

    well i've been friends with my friend kierstin since 5th grade and then last year in 7th grade i met my friend karen and so this year were great friends. i wanted to sit with karen AND kierstin at lunch this year so we combined our friends. Now that kierstin and karen are becoming friends, their now acting like best friends! they have a whole list of inside jokes! and for the past week, kierstin has been going over karens house EVERY SINGLE DAY! i havent even been over karens house as much as kierstin has and karen was MY original friend, NOT KIERSTINS! And kierstin is one of my best friends...NOT KARENS! but their just like leaving me out of the picture and just are getting too "buddy buddy"...their getting to the point where i just wanna explode...what should i do about this? bc it feels like its getting to the point where they like eachother better than they like me! and i want us all to be friends, i just want them to like me better then they like eachother bc i am the "founder" of their friendship, if it wasnt for me, they wouldnt be friends and i just want them to realize that...what do i do? please help!

    ~*Sam*~

  • mandii
    19 years ago

    I think you're getting a little too jelous. Maybe they don't even notice they're doing that. Besides they're just getting to know each other, once they've had enough of each other, they'll get bored. I'm sure they don't mean to ignore you or leave you out of the picture. You'll later on see the results.

  • candi
    19 years ago

    i am sorry that you are having trouble with your friends. Have you tried talking to them about your feelings. bc i am sure they jus haven't realized that you are feeling left out...

    I hope that everything works out for you

  • ~me~
    19 years ago

    it sounds like you might need to let go of them try hanging round with your not so close friends and get to no them youll probebly find a new good friend there
    good luck
    mexx

  • jamie
    19 years ago

    hi sam.
    listen it is great that you broght two different people together but maybe this might be your time to start new and keep the old but welcome new. maybe its them and not you it may be your time to move on.
    good luck
    jay