Pay?

whats with chicks expecting me to pay for movies everytime i mean first couple-o- times is ok then everyonce and a while but some chicks don't even bring money

guys : whats your movie/diner/whatever policy (how often u pay)

girls: do u expect a guy to pay always?

ya but once you go out on more than the first date and you do the whole holding hands and etc. it's really annoying considering i have a life on weekends which include spending half of my pay check on beer and whiskey

and you (the girl) shouldn't have to pay since most guys want to make a good first impression unless they're really stupid

I would pay for myself, but I've never been with a guy who would let me
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

Nicely said Soldier Love LoL
I have kids with my partner and I think I have paid for breakfast once in five years...he never lets me pay and that is a true gentleman. He says I should save my cash for makeup and shoes and stuff :o)

Dont get me wrong though as flattering as it is I always offer to pay and always bring enough cash to actually pay but what's a girl to do if he won't let her?

I would pay the first time. After that......well you girls wanted equality, so get your fucking money out of your pockets and pay half, jeeesus!

i would let the guy pay for me if i like him... but if i dont id grap for the bill and just walk out....

first of all tamar the guy should pay on the first dates for the good FIRST impression

second of all im a teen i like to get wasted on weekends, like a million other teens, and not remember i thing i did, it's called a social life or i could join the math club and study in all my spare time

also. notice. the. period. or. little. pretty. dot. to. indicate. a. new. sentence. after. extra. i meant paying is annoying considering i spend my paycheck

and for all the guys if you want a reson not to date tamar look at her picture

also is your boyfriend one of the kids in the math club? or is he mentalally unstable?

and good point mel, a little extremed, but good

I've never felt like I was good enough to let a guy pay my way. I usually end up paying myself, and giving him gas money etc... I'm the same way with friends. I'm very insecure about my relationships, I think I have to offer them something, but I don't know what I can offer...so it's usually money when I have it. When I don't...I play coy, hope nobody asks me out. because I'm afraid they'll be disappointed. of course if they still do, I've been known to break this resolution.

Pfft I wouldn't let a guy pay for me, I have money, and movies are only $10.

I have never been on a date where the guy expected me to pay. Even if I offered he would always say no! If you have a social life that requires you to spend most of your paycheck on alcohol then maybe you aren't ready to date. Sure when I was a teenager I drank too but I still never had a guy complain about paying for a movie. If your weekends of drinking are more important to you then don't ask out any girls. I am sure they all think you're a cheap ass by now anyways.

nicely said Tamar Wiener....for me i dont expect a guy to pay at all and i take my own money but i think its really nice for a guy to offer to pay especially on the first few dates when hes trying to make a good impression. after that then i think u sink into a personal agreement whether between u u get an understanding of who pays for what etc... but yea if u think holdin hands is annoying i know everyone prob drinks at 15 and stuff, i know i did, but i just think like many people have said that if ur worried about constanlty paying for stuff then y are u there, u should b focusing on the date not the price tag attached to her!!!

xxxLoUxxx

actually...y will a guy ask a girl f0r a date if he doesn't want to pay??... and i've never seen a girl who's resp0nsible f0r paying everything....if a guy is resp0nsible he wouldn't ask a girl to pay their movie,f00d, or whatver..