I NEED SOME ADVICE

my very good friend "babs" is having problems...she's in love with this guy matt but he doesn't seem to want her...so she also likes this guy jesse and he likes her but she keeps telling him that she doesn't like him because she wants matt. i don't know what to do with her...please give me some advice for her...thanks
daisy

lol i cant tell you how many times i've been in this situation. you have to ask if she really wants matt or does she just want him because she cant have him? because once i got the guy i wanted, the chase was over and i got bored. jesse is probably the best bet cause if anything else matt might see that she isnt willing to wait.
-A