candi
19 years ago
My best friend on the internet, just emailed my an email saying he was a cutter now and he sent me a pic of his arm the other day and from his wrist up to his shoulder is covered in scars, his mom knows and i have tried to tell him that cutting is not the way to handle things, but he says that it just makes him feel that it's his way of excape. Yes i was a cutter but that was a few months ago that i stopped and the reason i stopped was because of my friend Kyla, who was a sever cutter, who ended up killing herself around the first of the year, and i stopped because i didn't want to end up like her, and frankly i don't want my friend Jason to do the same. I know that i have posted on here before on that whole Suicidals/cutters beware but i just want some advice on it so i have something better to tell him other than "stop cutting" cause basically i am out of ideas. |
Shædow Poet
19 years ago
Bribe him. Tell him if he continues you will too (even if you don't have the intention of doing so). |
Carlee Ann
19 years ago
I wouldn't do the bribe one... I tried it once, and it just ended up w/ my friend feeling guilty and cutting worse. I think the second one is a good one, tho. Just let him no that you realize this is a release for him, but he could die in the process. try and get him on a healthier release, like drawing on himself w/ red marker or running. I do those and feel better... |
Shædow Poet
19 years ago
WAIT. I missed the part where you said he's your internet best friend. That changes everything. |
candi
19 years ago
thanx for the advice, I have met him a couple of times and the times i met him he looked almost like a regular person, he wasn't all that depressed back then, then the last time i saw him i noticed a couple of scars and cuts along his wrist line. but that is the only times that i got to see him, that was about 2 years ago. so just want to thank you for the advice. |
candi
19 years ago
forgot to add somethings to help clear this up, we have met only about 4 to 5 times. in person, then basically we are internet friends. I only get to talk to him a couple times a month. and the last few times that i have talked to him he's been really depressed and putting life down and everything. but i did email him your advice and am hoping to hear back from him soon. |
candi
19 years ago
hey guys, just wanted to post this to let you know that i appreicated your advice, but i just found out on tuesday that jason was killed in a car accident, his best friend got drunk and got in a bad accident, jason was thrown from the car and had a piece of glass stuck in one of his arteries. he was killed instantly. So just want to thank you for the advice.... bye |