I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE..I NEED HELP..PLEASE HELP ME.

  • Megan
    19 years ago

    ok well theres this guy he knows i like him and he likes me my parents hate it cuz hes 20 and i get yelled @ all the time...whenever a guy calles me my mom thinks its him...he knows better not to call my house...and my sister and her friends always like talk to me about it and i reall can't say anything they even have people looking after me in school..its insane but hes amazing....no one gets it....hes the most best thing that has ever happened to me....when i see him i smile and hes even seen me @ my worst...when i've puke'd...and when i've just woken up..one time we were talking on the phone and we were talking about how people dont' know what they want and hes like well do you know what you want..i was like i know excatly what i want and hes like o0o and what is that and im like well something.or should i say someone and hes like o0o do i know this someone and im like yes VERY well and hes like well tell him about him and i was liek well hes seen me puke and hes like wel i guess that wasn't enough to scare him away....(the guy was him) it was sooooo cute.. i love cuddling with him...he makes me feel soo free...but now i feel like i have to make my mom and dad believe that we aren' talking anymore..so i was thinking that i was going to tell him that we cant' talk anymore...but i can't i just can't do it.....i have no clue what im going to do...i love him...well not totally love...YET but hes the best......

    HELP ME PLEASE
    I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.

    Thank you

  • Erika
    19 years ago

    Hey, well I'm gonna try to help.. Why don't your parents like this guy? Is it just because he's 20 and you're younger than him, and if so how old are you? Maybe you should consider it in your parents eyes. If you really love him then don't stop talking to him because of your parents!!! Try to work it out, talk to your parents, if you talk to them and tell them about him and everything then maybe they'll start to like him and trust you more, but if they don't listen then do what you want that's their fault! Try to work out some kinda of compromise, but try to understand where your parents are coming from.....
    Hope I helped just a little bit!
    -wise beyond her years....-

  • Lost but Smiling
    19 years ago

    Okay, first off, how old are you? that changes the whole spectrum if you're 17/18 it's not to big of a deal because you're an adult, if you're like 13-16 then it's a pretty big deal. or at least wait a few years until you are an adult and then say can't change it now, but your teen years are a pretty weird years and you don't need something like this to hang over your head.
    take care
    ~Rae

  • Megan
    19 years ago

    Thank you and im 15.....yeha i know 15 and 20...big deal..but i odn't think any one understands...hes AMAZING! like hes seen me when i've puke'd just woken up and hes still by my side...hes there for me no matter what he understands what im going through...i don't LOVE him cuz ya know i've only known him for liek 2 months....so i like him..i can tell the difference.... thank you all for your help hopfully i'll get some mroe..
    Thank You

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    hey gal...well like evryone has said 15 and 20 is quite an age gap but hey my folks met at that age and are still together 22yrs on. :) i think if u are sure about this guy and u thinkk he is of u then talk to him. i think u need tot talk to ur folks as well. i think perhaps also u n ur bloke shud sit down with ur folks to ahve an open discussion about ur rship cos i think the ollny prob ur folks have is age tehn u need to tell tehm its just a nuumber and if ur folks get talkin to ur bloke and trust him more then the mroe likly they are to allow ur rship...hope this helps
    xxxLoUxxx

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    im 14 and my ex is 17.

  • LeRiSsA
    19 years ago

    hey i'm 15 and a couple weeks ago i was talking to this 21 year old and told my parents he was 16 and went to my school, so my mom was like well thats cool maybe you can get over your ex finally, well thats what i thought to until, i found out my ex was behind it, and told that 21 year old that i was easy and everything, so then my friends found out that night when we were at my house and yeah they wanted to kick his ass, so while they were trying to plan a fight over the phone my mom found out that he was 21 and now she has like no trust for me, and it feels like i won't be able to date in forever cause i feel so bad for lieing to her but most of all she knew i lied to her and that makes me feel bad, but man that guy was ugly but had the nicest lexus ever! my stuiped ex i dont' even know what to do now and i still like him so much!

  • Megan
    19 years ago

    Thank You All i like to hear comments from everyone....my rents don't have a reason to hate him..they don't even know him they didn't even give him a chance..but thank you guys for your help and hopfully i'll get more.