Lost but Smiling
19 years ago
Hi, umm wow this is weird but considereing i know like none of you ppl in person then i'm going to go ahead and post this...I am Bisexual, but don't really know of anyone else who is, with the exception of one of my best friends...so i was just curious if anyone out there on this site has any advice for me who can help me uh...cope...*God this is awkward* any and all advice is very cool. ty much! |
Lost but Smiling
19 years ago
just how to deal with stuff...i'm not to good at this, considering my parents would kick me out if they ever found out... |
ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
19 years ago
Hey, my 20 year old sista is bisexual. she's been with her gfriend for 6 months or so now, and there already living together. she dosent care if n-e one says anything mean 2 her about it, cus she realy likes her gfriend. she just reckons she's not a lesbian she's just in love with a girl.. yeh, i didn't get it either. my friend is also fully lesbian but she's only 13. surely she can't be a lesbian at such a young age, but i dunno. i know i'm straight cus i like guys. well, its gud that u can say this stuff on here. |
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19 years ago
I see nothing wrong with the way you feel... I'm 16, and i dont consider myself bi-sexual, but i have had encounters with females... It's more, experimental i guess... Last year, i was a bit confused with my sexuality, but now i guess its a bit clearer... If you are serious about you're sexuality, and not at all confused, i reckon you should sit your parents down and just explain to them how you feel... I don't know why they would kick you out for this? But if they feel so strongly about it, the best thing would be to confront them, rather than lie to them or do anything behind their backs... Plus it would make you feel a whole lot better to not have to hide something... Good luck anyway... |
Lost but Smiling
19 years ago
Well...when you ask why they might kick me out...well, they are 100% homophobic, they think that anyone who is gay/bi needs to be locked up and in major therapy...They say that it's wrong and that anyone who does it is going to hell, so it makes things...difficult. |
She Is Now Gone Away
19 years ago
diffrent people have diffrent points of view like the pope thinks that any one who likes the same sex will burn in hell and thats only his opinion but me I dont mind cuz i've been near people like that my whole life and i am |
ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
19 years ago
when my mom -n- dad found out bout my sista. they didn't kick her out but waz dissapointed. there used to it now tho. they just talked bout it 4 like hours. and in the end they sed it was her choice and they couldn't do n-e thing bout it |
ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
19 years ago
my otha sista is homophobic, she reckons god made adam and eve not eve and eve. stupid i know. |
Lost but Smiling
19 years ago
...that's my parents theory...now what about if my first kiss was with a girl, but this girl is taken, (to a guy) cuz she's bi? that complicates things... |
ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
19 years ago
Well, why don't u tell your parents dat your first kiss was wit a girl? or do they know already? |
katie!
19 years ago
Your parents may change their attitude if it is their own child, It will probably be hard for them but I'm sure they would rather know, at first they may be quite shocked and confused about it due to their beliefs but I'm sure given time they will accept it, they are your parents and they love you whatever you are |
Lost but Smiling
19 years ago
hmm...i don't think so, my parents are really really strict, if i don't stick to their expectations, i don't know what they are capable of, in fact they are convinced that i'm already doing drugs (my mom actually breathalized me the other day) and even though i'm not doing anything, they already don't trust me, and i think that now is NOT the right time to tell them...but it's still really confusing. |