Stalker.......

  • KRISTA
    19 years ago

    Okay there's this guy in my biology class and he's like obssesed with me. He broke up with his g/f to go out with me ....without even seeing if i wanted to go out with him in tha first place!!!! He follows me around like a little puppy dog. On friday me and my friend went to a dirt track to watch tha races and he came ......well i sat with like 10 other guys and started flirting with them hoping he would get tha picture that i didn't like him..but he didn't and i'm afraid he might ask me out at church tommorrow and i don't want to hurt his feelings by just saying no...any suggestions? Plz give me somethin good :S

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    19 years ago

    So, he officially broke up with his g/f? No chance of him going back to her...?
    I wouldn't go so far as to call him stalker...yet. ask yourself why you don't like this guy.
    I mean, one date, never hurt anyone, right?

  • Lil Luce
    19 years ago

    hmmm i know what u mean there's a guy (one o my mates) who is practically stalkering me, i tried everything from being really flirtatious with other guys n stuff but in the end u guna av to tell him straight if he asks u out cos thats only way hell get teh picture. dont worry hes a big lad hell get over it.
    take care
    xxxLoUxxx

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    i had that problem once. but got rid of the guy by just saying.. hey, i don't want 2 hurt ya feelings but i'm in love with someone else, its not that i dont like you its just i love this otha guy. but we can be friends and hang out just nothing more at the moment, k?..
    well 2 be truthfull, i didnt say it i wrote him a letta. it worked and were still friends now.

  • Samantha lynn
    19 years ago

    4 CHOICES HERE:
    1- be honest and tell him straight out that you aren't interested in dating him becuase his constant presence has got you freaked/annoyed.

    2-you have his screen name? get one of your buddies to make up a rather masculine sn and im him to bugger off...

    3- if you have a best guy friend or any guy that you're really close then tell him about your stalker and see if he'll help you out. get your bud to talk to your stalker and frankly say "if you don't leave her alone I'll find you and make your life hell"

    4- do all three.

    LOL they're kinda mean but work well. a guy who i was friends with became stalker-like with me and after i told him straight that i wasn't interested in him yet he still didn't listen I told my best guy bud and he did both things in #2 and 3.
    What's even cooler is that since then my bgb and I got real close and are dating now ^.^!
    -XoXo-
    Sam