Abused.....

Hi guys,
I need to get some advice....okay well my boyfrined gets hit by his dad....His dad dosn't do it often just when he is really mad....My boyfrined tells me it's okay and it dosn;t bother him but I see it diffrent....I'm scared to tell someone because it might make his life worse for him.....what should I do??

wow...it's the same with my boy friend. i dont know what to do either except just be there for him you know. and maybe you should tell someone about his dad...i dont know..

yea like ismail said he has to stand, is he scared to like piss them off, do they want him perfect or something?

yeah pretty much , i mean his dad is ashamed of every thing he dose... he is a greatkid and he is very smart...get's good grades and every thing..but his dad still isn't please...he dosen't even come to his band concerts...he is really good and he dosn't bother to show...he dose stand up but his dad always makes it worse..one day his dad beat him with a lead pipe...my boyfriend punched his dad in the face 1 time and he'll never do it Again....cause when he did that...his dad made it so worse...things have been better but im still worried...

yeah....
that made sence....I'm going to get my parents involved and stop this....yeah he's 14 but yeah...

alright

get help now. Call the police...if you don't, your boyfriend could very likely be killed. I'm not joking. Get help now!

yes u shood help him to confront his dad

the other day i called him and this might sound corny but we talked and his dad was tehre...his dad appologised and so far everyhint is good...his dad stopped drinking and smoking pot and now things are better..thanks for you guys's and girls's advice... it helped a lot!!!