PLZ HELP ME!!! GUY ISSUES

  • Kayla
    19 years ago

    To some of you this may not seem like a big deal, but it is something that has been driving me crazy. I liked this guy...I slept with him and then my BEST FRIEND started dating him, behind my back...it is really a long story...but that basically sums it up..But anyways...he still ikes me and I still ike him, but I don't know if I can control myself around him even though he is dating my best friend...he says he likes her and all but he also likes me and he is afriad that she will hate him if he breaks up with her and that he will never see me....I really don't know what to do...Would it be wrong for me to go back to him? Is it wrong for me to still like him?

  • Shy
    19 years ago

    Babe you can't control who you like
    Ummm...bout your friend...does she know how you two feel?

  • LinkinParkFreak
    19 years ago

    okay.....first off...if she was your friend she wouldn't date your man feelings or no feelings...second ,
    who broke up with who??
    if he dumped you and now he says he like's you again...don't fall into his trap...I'm only 15 and I've been down that road already and trust me sista' girl , guys that dump you and then say "oh i like you still" , ether are using you or just wanna see if you'll put out....in some cases they really do and things will work out but most the time guys are thinks with their "second" brain;),,,,yeah well good luck chica.....best wishes..

  • LinkinParkFreak
    19 years ago

    oh one more thing.....bout ur best friend....she needs to find her own guy and leave your's alone...not to be rude cause I'm trying to say this with out being a beeyach...but if she was ur best friend #1 she wouldn't date him let alone behind ur back"..that's just plain slutish.. and second....i know u can't control who you like and all but doing that is taking it a little too far....:) later

  • Kayla
    19 years ago

    Well he and I were never 'dating'! But for almost 2 months we seen eachother all the time and we were always messing around and we both really liked each other...then she started going to his house with out me and he got really trashed one nite and asked her out...then she lied to me and made me think the next weekend that I was gonna hook up with him and she got drunk and well we all did and I made out with him and she came in the bathroom, saw it and then admited that they were together...He doesn't know what he wants and I just don't want to let go, yet I don't want to hurt myself and wait:(