i need some pathedic love advice

I completely agree with forgotten distortion!!!

You are not pathetic... or crazy for caring about him. I had the same thing happen to me except that we both really do love each other, but the similar thing was that i instantly cared so much for him. Getting to really know someone takes time. I have the same prob. also with not seeing a lot of him. He goes to a completely different school (and is graduating this wkend.) and even though we work at the same place, our schedules are never the same.

I don't think that you are pathetic at all or pathetically helpless...

p.s. the typical attached at the hip couples arent always the greatest thing to be...relationships can (not always) but sometimes can get ruined the fastest that way

I don't know if i have helped you calm your self about being pathetic, but i wish you all the best!!

xox michelle -talk to me anytime (and check out my poems if you want)

first of all...caring for someone u know little about i not crazy. I have been dating a guy for 3 months and i know very little about him. I think the fact that u two aren't joined at the hip is very good because peopel need a certain time away from there significant other to find out how much they care for eachother. Maybe the reason that he said i love you but then said he didn't mean it was because he was scared. he amy have meant it at the time but dont want you to know or is afraid of being inlove or something like that. Or he may be at the stage where he cares for you alot but not enough to say i lvoe you. give it more time and if you ever ahve doughts...ask him if he still cares about you. Tell him to be honest because u don't want to be wasting your time on someone if they ahve no feelings in return...good luck!