Is this a wrong thing to do? PLS READ.

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    I just broke up with my boyfriend 2 days ago cus of some rumours going round about him. and well the next day, (Yesterday) a different guy asked me out and i said yes. but is it wrong for me to have a different boyfriend the next day after being in a previous relationship for 2 months?? pls write...

  • Dorotea©
    19 years ago

    Well I think you should tell that guy who asked you out that no, you actually don't want to go out with him because you need some time for yourself...something like that. I don't think you should get into a relationship right after a previous relationship.

    Satuxxa

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    But when i heard the rumours, my sister heard them too then she told my mom. and when he (My ex) rang my house, my mom told him to never ring again and to stay away from me. yeah, i was realy upset for the next week and a half cus he didn't come and see me. but he rang me and told me that the rumours werent true and that he still loved me. and he promised to meet me every day after school at school but he never came. so i told one of his friends to tell him that it was over. then the next day, these people came up to me and said that he didnt like me anymore and he was glad i dumped him. then that same day, jake asked me out so i said yes. but today, my ex (Tye) met me after school, and he thought we were still goin out and he had no idea bout jake. so i told him and he was realy pissed off, but said that he'd ring me tonight to talk about it. but my mom said if he does ring then she'll tell him to go away. what should i do? someone pls help me...
    lyndi Xx

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    By the way.. my ex (Tye) is 17. and Jake is 13. i am 14. which should i go out with? PLS HELP.

  • InMyWorld
    19 years ago

    wow 13-17 is a HUGE difference in guys...especially in maturity...usually at least. i cant tell you which one to go out with b/c i dont know them, or you, or even what the rumors were or if they're true. your mom is probably not letting you talk to tye b/c he's 17 and she doesnt want to take a chance with the rumors...cuz im guessing they were bad. im sorry that i couldnt really be of help...good luck!

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    I did consult him. he said the rumours werent true. i didn't believe them, but my mom did. its not my fault my mom is stopping me from seeing him. i didn't dump him bcus of the rumours, i dumped him bcus i care more about my mom than him.
    by the way the rumours were that he had slept with another girl while going out wit me, (The girl told me that herself.) and that he was looking 4 otha girls. there were heaps more too. But i just want u all to know that i do really like Jake. my mom likes Jake too.

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    with you being only 14 i am wonderin if you even realize that if you go out with Tye (who by the way is my age) he could get in some serious legal trouble!
    I would say to go out with Jake. He is your age, and you will probably have more in common with him than a 17 year old.
    Use your best judgement and do what you think is right...but please be safe!

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    How can i be a slut. a slut means who you do, not what you do. but thanx anyway. i think il chose jake... Xx

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    oh well, you get that. they can label me as whatever they want. if thats the case.....lyndi

  • chelle
    19 years ago

    good luck w/ whatever you do....it will all work out in the end...xox

  • Haleigh
    19 years ago

    damn ever heard of rebound

  • Catty
    19 years ago

    Ok...first of all...did u ever ask ur boyfriend if the rumors were true? Or did u ever ask anyone if the rumore were true? And no, going out with a diffrent guy the next day after been with someone for 2 months is not wrong. I went out with a guy for over a year and when i broke up with him (because i never got to see him and it was pointless) i was asked out my a guy the next day and i said yes. SO no its not wrong as long as you no longer have feelings for ur ex, or if you are going out with this guy to get back at ur ex , etc.

  • ANGEL_OF_DARKNESS
    19 years ago

    yeah, i did ask him if it was true. he said it wasn't. but he has been known 4 lying b4. but i didnt think they were true. but my mom did. i only dumped him bcus my mom kept saying i was better off without him. but now i agree with my mom.
    today, my friend told me that he rang her and he told her that he was glad it was ova. but thats only bcus she told him about me having anotha boyf..
    everyone keeps telling me he now has a different girlf. but i havent spoke 2 him 4 ages so i dont know if thats true.. but this is the first time ive eva had a boyfriend straight after anova one. maybe its bcus i really like jake......

  • Alyssa
    19 years ago

    Not at all i had a BF as soon as i broke up with my ex-BF.And he had a GF at the same time. Girls they may say he loves you but he dont cuz he will stab you in the back so many times you won't know what hit you.

  • Christina Gomes
    19 years ago

    i think tht it is kinda messed up cuz id be rlly rlly pissed if sum1 did tht to me. yea u should've at least waited like a week be4 u got a new man