Should I leave him?

U may love him but you need to get out of the relationship, he is very dangerous espically if he held a knife to your thoart. And there's always that chance that he might hurt you.Email at armyfantic4u@yahoo.com if you want to talk. I'm here for you.

You're 15 years old.....leave him.....enough said.

Just be stronger....your life is more important. Think about YOU not him....that only leads to trouble.

Exactly if you don't feel safe by tellin him face to face to him by phone or computer I know thats seems like a weak thing to do but it might be for the best.And just a word of advice if you starts beggin you back like cryin , and says he'll change then I suggest you don't fall for that old trick cause it could end up gettin you killed in the end.

Please, don't end up like my mom. Married my biological, abusive, alcoholic father because she thought she loved him. Needless to say, I grew up in an abusive house until he decided he was too good for us. Now, my mom, brother, and I have deep scars inside us and on us from him. He's made me not want to live anymore... please, don't let this happen to you. It's just little things that grow into punches, smacks, and before you know it, he's throwing you against the wall everynight and just using you for sex, cheating on you. Please... trust me. You don't want this life.

You need to get out of the relationship as soon as you can. If you're scared that he's going to come after you, then I have an idea.

Take a self-defense class. I took one at my college last semester and it was a lot of fun. A couple of weeks ago I was approched by 2 guys, and I got away because of what I had learned. It teaches you how to have more self-esteem and how to stand up for yourself. It was the best class I have ever taken.

If you're scared that he will come after you with another weapon, then have someone there with you. Keep someone with you at all times. If he starts to freak you out, then call the cops on him.

You say you love him....and you might...but do you really think that love is about being scared all the time?

You need to get out NOW.

Listen to me sweetie...LEAVE HIM! You do not have to put up with the stuff he's putting you through. He sounds like a complete loser and whatever he is doing to you now will only get worse. I repeat LEAVE HIM! There is not that much love in the world. Really. He is so not worth your time. You said he held a knife to your throat? He has no respect for you at all. Kick him to the curb!

I defiantly argee with you Amanda get rid him. Its not good for you.If he loved you as much as he said he did then he wouldn't be treating this way.Girl you deserve a guy who loves, and admires you for him you are.Not someone who hurts you physically, and emotionally.

for your own safety id dump him. but i used to think one of my exs was dangerous and felt the exact way you do. but i just felt lost when i was without him. but i left him in the end bcus i had no choice.... if u no what i mean..

You needed to leave him like....YESTERDAY!

"the only thing now is that he's the only good thing in my life"

If he was a "GOOD" thing in your life you wouldn't have made this thread AND he wouldn't treat you the way he does.....Get a grip! LEAVE HIS MONKEY ASS!!

Sounds like an ass to me...don't put up with it...Your too good for that...Keep your head up

I think that the only thing you can do is slowly let go...I know how hard it is to let go and I know how bad it may hurt...but you have too...I know you say that you are over him...but in your heart your not...you have been so used to him being in your life, with out him there...there is something missing...Just hold on....the missing will pass

LOL @ Natalie. Nicely said:)

Hun I don't mean to hurt u or anything,but I don't call that anything good in your life when he's hurting you.And could possible be crazy enough to kill u if he got pushed far enough.

Um...I've been with my hunny for 5 years. FIVE freaking years and we are separating. I KNOW how hard it is. Trust me. Don't assume no one knows how you feel. If he cheated on someone else he'll cheat on you, "fo' sho'" If he treats you so bad why are you here defending him? You are one of those girls who likes to be treated like shit. If you don't get treated like shit then you don't want to be with him. Of course he talks sweet to you, he wants you to be trapped and it seems as though it's working. He is NOT the best thing in your life if you he treats you so bad. You need to THINK. Use your head! You sound like a freaking fool on here. The more you say the dumber you look.

Hun, listen sweety I know how hard it can be with someone, and to leave that person. Believe hun I know I know but hun i'd rather u feel a lil pain, then get married or be with him for like several years, and get beat or possible killed by him. I was with my first fiancee' for like 5 months, and all I felt was pain hun, you don't need that in your life. I know there is your true love out there for you sweety hey if u want like I said email me at armyfantic4u@yahoo.com , and i'll be there for you I will.

Okay look... you are in way over your head here! You need to get away now...take it from someone who can say been there done that. I am currently in a horrible situation where my boyfriend and I are not allowed to communicate anymore because he has raped me and would abuse me and like yourself he took a knife to me and actually used it. The police are involved now much beyond my wishes because my parents found out. he got me hooked to the point where I lost all my friends, I took up popping pills, cutting, and being anorexic, to ease away the pain. I now go to therapy and have constant worries that he may not be happy and come after me. I cry every night wishing all of this was over and that he would get better but in reality I know it may never happen. I am telling you this to show you that this can possibly turn out to be yourself and it is in no position to be in. I am changed forever! I am warning you with my story hoping that it is enough to give you the courage to get away. If you are scared he might come after you, get the police involved or make sure you are constantly surrounded by friends! Good luck!
-Kayla-

Listen you want our advice we aint telling you to take it be we strongly suggest that you do leave him. Hun just think I'm not saying you will but lets just say for some reason or another you married this guy, and you had children by him.He could treat you alot worse or maybe even hurt your children.If not then they'd see you get beat up on, and children don't need to see that. Listen you need to get out before its too late.I know its hard but you've gotta slowly get out of there before something terrible happens.