HOW CAN YOU MAKE A GIRL LOVE YOU!!!!!

I am sick of trying to find a way to make a girl fall in love with you ........wat would they like? how to make them stick to u and never look at any other guy as a BF .......Last thing i might need some suggestions on how to make a girl love you if she already had a BF!!!!!......

I know its a strange topic but i reached a DEAD END from thinking of the girl i love!!

Thanx ALL

------------THE SNAKE EATER-------------

just be yourself you cant make anyone love you>
but you can tell them how you feel and see what happens but always be yourself

you can't make someone love you

You can't make someone love you. And if she is with someone else you should respect that and not try. There is a guy who has been in love with me for years and he pushes me to feel the same. Half the time I can't even stand to be around him. So more than likely your efforts to persuade her are actually pushing her away to someone else. Be her friend. Maybe one day she'll come around.

exactly megan, you can't make a girl love you, sry.

just be your self and the right girl will come around.

I really thank u all..........and awaiting for more posts!!!

--------------THE SNAKE EATER--------------

You can't. Deal with it and move on.

Like everyone else said, you cant make someone love you. And don't try to be someone you're not to make someone love you. Then it's not real love if you're not yourself. One day the right girl will love you...

be nice to her bf, be nice to her friends, stanf up for her, offer to help her with her locker if she needs tell her she looks pretty today, or point out a feature of hers that you like. smile and wave at her in the halls...just stuff like that will get her to notice you...treat her right and she'll love that

You can't MAKE someone love you. They just do. If you go and act like a totally different person and that girl falls for you, her love will not be real. She won't love you, she'll love what she thinks you are.

I never thought you could make anyone love you. i just thought theyd love you for who you are, not who your trying to be. but maybe if you try and do nice things, she might eventually fall in love with you. but i dont agree with breaking a couple up. they might really love eachother. but does this girl know that you like her??. Lyndi Xx

i think you can make a girl love ya. you just have to be her ideal guy and treat her perfectly. tell her you love her, that'll get her attention

be a better person than her boyfriend. make her laugh. be fun. be optimistic, no one likes a guy that whines. tell her that you respect the fact that she has a boyfriend and you'll leave them alone but you'll still be loving her from a distance then if she ever has any problems with her boyfriend she'll think of you

you cant....

You could try being nice to her... That might work. Or thebest way is to be yourself...

Thats the point you can't make anyone love you they have to willingly love you theirselves.

be nice

You can't make someone love you.
all you can do is stalk them and hope they freak out and give in. Lol
Don't change to make a chick like you
be your self

Do not try to make a girl love you.If you act so much like you love her she will feel uneasy.You might scare her away if you try to make her love you.Just act yourself and if she loves you you will know it.

al girls are different some like the clingy guys others cant stand that

you cant make a girl love you...love is an emotion that cannot be controlled...just be yourself dont try so hard...whats meant to be will happen...good luck:) xox

I'm a girl and I would like for a guy to listen to what I have to say, say little things that make us sure you'll be there for us when we need you to be...

We don't like guys who argue a lot or lie.....never lie to a girl believe me they find out and that is the end of you.
And try to remember what she wears and complement her on it like "Ashley you look beautiful today" nothing like "oh my god that outfit rocks on you" Something sweet.

Also when you give gifts make sure most of them you made or it came from the heart!!

That is the most important!

Mate. If she doesnt like you, she just doesnt like you. simple. Their is no such thing as making someone like you like that. go for someone else. like me!!! NOOO just joking!!

laterz peoplez
xxoo

just be yourself... and if she doesnt see you as someone "special" then dont sulk about it... it just wasnt meant to be

Thank you all ..........for ur nice posts..

but i already told her that i liked her , and then i din talk to here from that time till now, she used to treat me as if i am a maid in here house , she was very serious with me , didn give me a chance to joke with her!!!!!!

before few days i went to our end of year school party(she was participating in one of the presentations) , and when the party ended i went out and saw her , i just started to talk to her and she was annoyed ....and told me " i am not a game so that whenever you want u talk to me "
then she went to her friends , i followed her and told her i don want anything more than real friendship!!!

and she said she didn wana talk,
I took her best friend aside and told her to tell the girl i love that i don want anything more than friendship!!..........

sorry if it was long!!!!!
thanx again

------------THE SNAKE EATER--------

Not sure u can make her love u. but u can make her like u in a way dat might just grow to love in time. it really just depends on what she likes really. guys can get me to like them by being funny, giving me lotza attention, make me feel special, flirt loads, talk to me, understand me, and they gotta smell, and look good. lol not much...

hope this helps a little

from wat i know it sounds like you want to force sum1 to like you! ♥

i didnt mean to be mean there but ive seen it happen before! If you want sum1 to like you talk to them, but not tooo much or they will think its annoying, invite them to places...as friends and then they shud have sum type of emotion/feeling for you! ♥ if they dont feel anything 4 you there not worth the wait!

Thnx all!!!!

i cant be myself ,becouse if i will all my friends (girls) in the end just starting to tell me that they wanna date me,thats why i am not who i ussualy are,sometimes boring and shit as long as there is a balance

Talk to her a lot, make her laugh, hug her unless she hates you or thinks your a pervert, and give her a lot of compliments, lol...

"HOW CAN YOU MAKE A GIRL LOVE YOU!!!!!"

easy.. here are 10 things to do to win her heart (but if she doesn't love you-try these on me, i'll love you!) *wink*

1. you'll be the tagger go chase after her.
2. wink at her
3. smile sweetly & sincerely
4. talk to her-fone/face2face
5. hang-out with her-park anyone??
6. play gameboards (let her win)
7. write a poem/sing a song
8. eat: ice-cream, go to a nice restaurant, fastfood
9. buy her a gift-something cute for her to keep forever
10. flower? teddy bear?

*well, these are the things that would make me love someone*

Chris Walker, i took that comment to offense.

you cant make someone love you!
i made that mistake and im paying the price for it

i told this girl i liked her on msn and she was all like awww and stuff and she told me all of her secrets and i havent told anyone any of them so she obviously trusted me alot(the secrets are like really really personal)and if i told her anything or if she told me anything it was on msn and she hacked a friends email now she isnt allowed on msn and its quite depressing cuz now its more obvious that she cant stand me for some reason(shes trying to hide it though so im not sure if thats the case)but im positive she likes someone else

it's true that u can't make someone love you.. but it's worth a try.. show someone that you care, be there for that someone, just love that someone and wait for that someone to love you back... if not, just move-on.. there are millions of guys/girls out there in the world, losing 1 guy/girl, doesn't mean it's the end of the world.. i believe that if a person is nice, there's always someone nicer and the nicest.. =) g'luck in seaching for your love ones.. i'm proud to be single!! **more guys for me to choose from** hopefully, i won't choose the WRONG guy..

its called free will buddy...

Want to make a girl like you?

STEP ONE: Don't listen to everyone else here.
STEP TWO: You do these 5 things...

1) Don't ask. Especially not for sex.
First, I hope you're not that kind of guy.
Second, this means that women are emotional people, not logical. For some strange reason, if a girl knows you find her attractive, she will be less inclined to go out with you. The less attractive she thinks you think her, the more attracted to you she will be. This is partly why men can't get rid of women they don't like: they show no interest. Mistake.
Perhaps it's something to do with wanting something you can't have.

2) Dont give an honest answer, when you can lie.
WAIT! Don't run away. It's not like that.
If a girl says "does my bum look big in this?" You'd be a fool to be honest and say "yes." Lie. Say no. It's up to you to decide when to use this rule. Use it wisely. The only time women want you to be honest, is when it comes to the bad things of other women. So, if you don't like another girl who the girl you like doesn't like (if youre with me) then it's best to be honest there and say "you know xyz? I don't like her either." (I do not suggest you gossip).

3) Don't be logical (like me!)
As I said, women are emotional, not logical. I have yet to meet a girl who likes/can play chess. Chess is a logical game. No girls like it. Ok, ok. There are a few freaks in every kind, but most girls don't like it.
If you do go down this path, it will result in your emotional death, and basically losing the girl you like.

4) Don't talk.
Girls like to talk. Shut up and listen. Simple.
All you do, is introduce a topic. That is your sole purpose in a discussion with a girl. Oh. And to agree with her at all times. She doesn't like something? Guess what? Or do you. She thinks something is good? Well, guess what buddy - that's right. So do you.
EXCEPT: when they speak badly about themselves. "I'm short!" - refer to rule 2. LIE!
"I'm fat" - you lie: "No you're not."
"I don't like my hair" - "It's lovely!"
I'm sure you get it :-)

5) Be a man.
This is what people here have been telling you. Be yourself. But be a man about being yourself.
Girls tend to like older guys. Why? Because they can look up to them, they have a protector type person, etc. It's all printed in the brains long ago. Incidentally, it's printed in the guy's brain to be that protector, and to look after his girl.
This means several things. Be in control, especially when there are other guys around. If another guy insults you, think of something clever and witty to say back. Be weak, and watch the girl you like fly away.

Have I done all that?
I'm not that shallow.
Does it work?
Yes. I've done almost the exact opposite at all times to the rules above:
1) I told the girl i thought she was pretty, and that i liked her
2) I was always honest (except about the bad stuff about self thing. I'm not that silly!) - I also didn't talk myself up, unlike other people about. I was just me. Mistake.
3) Yup, I was logical. Yes, it led to my emotional death.
4) I gave my own opinions about things. This simple made her feel inferior, and she never spoke about the subject again. Every time I would bring something else up, she'd always ask what i thought, and promptly agree with me. If she disagreed, she just said "i don't agree" and left it at that.
5) I'm a polite type of person. I never insulted people back, ever. It gave the illusion that I couldn't. This one person would always belittle me in front of this girl, and y'know what? I lost. The guy I lost to kept all those 5 rules.

Follow the 5 rules, m'boy, and you'll be fine.
And be yourself. Just not too much.
Oh. one more thing:
RULE 0: Don't trust another guy. This means don't talk about this girl to anyone who is male. No one. I broke that rule too. Guess who to? That other guy. Which is why you mustn't speak about a girl you like to anyone: they may say 'y'know what? he's right. She is nice!' - and then you'll have competition.

Follow the rules...
People will say im shallow for saying these things. I don't care. It's all true. People will also say it isn't true. If they're girls, they're speaking from their heart and emotion, not their mind. If they're men, they're speaking from inexperience.
It really is that simple.
The thing which is not simple, is keeping a balance between these rules. IF you show too little interest, you may lose her. If you don't actually ever have opinions of your own, ever, she'll think you're stupid. Keep the rules, and keep the balance. And good luck to you.

Oh. The girl has a boyfriend? No problem:
RULE 7: Undermine him. This means keep control at all times when he's around, point out his flaws, talk yourself up, and show, in general, how silly he is, how bad at something he is - even if he's really good at it. It doesn't matter. Remember, girls aren't logical.

To the guys: Heh. Good luck.
To the girls: Maybe i'll tell you how to get a guy one day ;-)

one more thing.
About lying.

Yes, girls hate liars.
NEVER lie. Except when it doesn't matter if you do. Like "is my bum big?"

Ya can't make a girl love YOU...but you can possibly make her love someone your trying to be. If you are really that desperate and feel like fucking with someones mind, be anyone BUT you. Be the nicest person in the world. Never scream. Do the little things that mean the world to her. Make her think she's your world. Trust me, she'll fall for it. Every time.

And when you guys finally make it official, and after you've been together for 1-2 years, give her whiplash. Show your true self. Trust me, You'll feel REAL good after that. After you break her heart and make sure she never trusts another man.

Sorry, I guess I was speaking on personal experience. might have gotten a little carried away.

Hope I answered your question