OMG!!! I am absolutely outraged...

Ok, I was hanging out in the park after school and there were these guys. THey were making comments about my body and asking how much a blowjob was, etc...
As I was leaving one of them came up to my and touched my breasts. THis was the first time we had ever et. I was floored and yelled at them to get their hands away. THen, I continued on my way. They followed my and my friends, slapped my butt, slapped my friend's butt, did a wall kick off my other friend's back, and continued to touch me. THey followed us all the way out of the park and my friends walked me home.
I feel like shit right now, and I am astounded that anyone would be so degrading to me.
I was just wondering what were your views were on this.
I was also wondering if any of you have ever done such a thing?
Thanks,
xoxZoexox

No this has never happened to me. But i have had strangers shouting things at me. Nasty Things. Im sure you got a good look at them. So if you feel strong enough go to the police station and get them reported for Harassment. If your state of mind is 'but what if they do something when they finish their time'. Then you can get protection, tell the police that you are worried about that and you can have some sort of protection. But it has upset you, they need to be punished for what they have done.
Im here to talk.
Hayley-Ree xxx

haha well OF COURSE I've been called at. what teenage girl hasn't? I highly doubt a girl would go through life having never been called at.
Actual physical contact, is a different story.

I would be pissed too, but if a guy ever touched me like that I would make sure he wouldn't have the nerve to do it again :)
(that's where the 'guys can't hit girls' rule comes in handy)

Next time, don't yell at them because that's what they want, attention. if they do it again just reply calmly that if they keep it up you will have to get authorities involved for harassment.
if they think you're bluffing, prove them wrong.

tata

Nada: I find your answer terribly naive. The next time that two big guys are following you and making you intimidated, I would truly like to see you try and beat them up successfully. The last thing you want to do is provoke people like that. You want to get to a public place if you can, but if you dont have mace or a gun, I wouldnt recommend getting physical on them.

I would go to the police and tell them what happened, to whoever made this first post.

Nada: Again, in the given situation (and I've been in situations like that, and had a knife on me) I would like to see a girl successfully try to kick their asses and scare them enough. If a guy is already touching you and saying things like that to you, chances are, he wouldnt be afraid to rape you. So provoking him by trying to get physical, making him mad? Sounds BRILLIANT to me. Pulling a knife on them is a calculated risk, with knives, you have to get close to them, and remember, you're outnumbered, and they're bigger. They could also have a knife or a gun. Anyway, even if YOU think you could do it, I highly doubt that any person not trained in self defense would be recommended to pull shit like that on people who are obviously preditors.

I definetly wouldn't unless I so happened to have a knife on me (btw I have no idea how to use one) and if the guy was already close enough to be touching me. Even then I would only pull it out to show him I was serious about leaving me alone, considering I would have no idea what to do because I have no experience with knives.

Nada: No one knows that but you. It would be stupid for someone to pull a weapon as weak as a knife (they are pretty weak when you dont know how to use them) and risk having A. one pulled on them, B. their own knife taken and used on them, or C. For things to get worse from there.

Most girls would not do that, it would be pretty stupid.

You can pull the knife, but you still risk escalating (sp?) the situation if it wouldnt have escolated in the first place.

Like others have said, go to the police. File a report on Harassment.

-Sarah

I can't, for several reasons:
a) They're minors.
b)It's very hard to file a sexual harassment case in France.
c)I have no proof.
d)The police wouldn't do anything anyway.

Its worth a try.
1) it doesnt matter.
2) keep trying.
3) you have your friends as proof.
4) try it, if they dont, then their gay (lol) but its worth a try anyway.
Good Luck! If you dont wanna do it, i'll fly to France and sort them cops out lol!!
Hayley-Ree xxx