How do you know...

it takes a while to really figure out how a guy feels,because at first it can go like this...one week he calls nonstop, and the next, he "forgets" to call, and it goes on like this with different things. it doesn't necessarily show how he feels...just look at his actions, not his words and you'll honestly figure out how he thinks and stuff the more you get to know him. i've been with my guy for about a year now and it was only the last 5 months that i was really secure in how he felt...i always knew he cared for me but i didnt know the extent or what he would do for me until then, which is when i'd really gotten to know him...we'd talked about everything imaginable. he shows me he loves me by slipping notes in my pocket randomly, showing up to see me whenever he can, leaving his phone on in the middle of the night just in case i need him, calling me in the morning to tell me to have a good day, calling me at night to say goodnight, reaching for my hand in public or slipping his arm around me, calling me just to tell me he wont be able to talk for a while instead of leaving me waiting, bringing me something sweet after i've had a bad day, just sitting with me when i'm sick or sad or something, umm one time he wrote me a note of all the things he loves about me, watching chick flicks w/ me...thats all the action type things...other stuff is like he acts like he doesnt want to let go when we hug...he understands when i just want to cuddle and stuff...he doesn't pressure me to do things, etc... well, hope i helped!