2 guys...please help
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kami
19 years agoalright i am in love with my boyfriend of 5 months... my first love but he doesnt treat me how i think i deserve to be treatedi always feel he puts his going with friends and drinking before me....but he is still good to me....and i love him....and this kid i care about ALOT is so in love with me treats me like a princess...i mean i wanna stay with my boyfriend but i get so stressed and am trying to stay sober and he is rollin and shit...and te other kid i want to be withh im cause i know he will make me happier....any feedback i can get will help
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Chris
19 years agoWell, I'll be a bit honest with you. Talk to your b/f and tell him how you feel. He may have some things to tell you too. It's hard to be in a stable relationship when somone in the relationships drinks. As far as the other guy. No disrespect toward him, but from what I've learned over the years a guy will do/say anything to get you. Most guys usually put on a front to get what they want. I don't mean that this guy is bad, his intentions may be good, but sometimes you have to look depper than that. I guess the only way to tell is to give him a chance and see what happens. Maybe you should just get to know him the best you can b4 you make any decisions.
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Catty
19 years agoOk...first...you need to confront your boyfriend in a nice way and let him know how you feel. Tell him you love him but u think he spends more time with friends and drinking than with you. Suggest going out somewhere with his friends etc. Then tell guy # 2 to put his feelings on hold...until you can figure out this thing with your boyfriend. Tell guy #2 you need to see if things are going to work out with ur boyfriend before u can decide your feelings with him. And do just that. Stop seeing guy#2 until you have worked things out w/ ur boyfriend.Then, if things don't improve with ur boyfriend, tell him you needed to be treated better and he needed to spend more time with you. Dump him NICELY and be with guy # 2 if he make you happy.
