what do i do?!!?

ok....heres the thing...my ex and i still love each other but i broke up with him in the first place cuz my dad didn't like him. we want to go back out and we basically act like we are dating but i dont want to displease my dad...it seems like i am always doing things to make other people happy but my ex is what makes me happy and i really want to be with him again! I need some advice...what do i do about it?
if i could get some guy advice too, that would really help me out.

Im not a guy, but ill try anyway!

If he is what makes you happy, then im sorry to say but maybe you should get back with him, despite what your dad says! Try talking to your dad about how much you love him, and try and make him understand! try getting him and your ex to get to know eachother aswel, it might help him to get to like him! good luck! xox

thanx for answering crimson rose!! that is what my mom said too, but if you knew my dad you might understand why it is so intimidating and hard to talk to him. thanx...xox

thanx brittney...lol

Bob: first off, thanx for the compliment of maturity. I try...lol. second i understand that no guy is ever good enough for daddy's little girl but it just frusterates me so much! and you're right...i know how to look both ways b4 crossing the street, but they just can't seem to let go of my hand. thanx for the advice...God Bless

When I was 15 I started dating my now fiance. My parents didn't like him as they didn't want me dating someone out side of my race. For almost 2 years I hid him from everyone. Finally he came to meet them and after my mom got to know him she fell in love with him. He calls her mom now and she tells everyone that's her son without even thinking twice about the color issue. My stepdad got used to him too and he was (I guess still is) very prejudice. So my advice would be do what makes you happy! When your father and everyone else sees just how much he means to you they may back off a little and let you decide for yourself.

Jordan:

Are you seriously telling someone to talk to their Dad? I think you are the one who needs to speak to your Dad. Maybe a priest instead...I will pray for you tonight! (I won't add the reasons why...everyone will see for themselves when they read further)

guess wat i did?!? i will tell you...my ex's parent's have invited me to his graduation this wkend, but they dont want him to know cuz they want to surprise him...but i had to get permission first...so this morning i told my mom...and then after school while my dad and i were alone in the kitchen i asked him....he didn't sound mad at all but he said that he and my mom have to talk about it...my mom already said it was fine w/ her....i think i am going to be able to go!!!!!! you have no idea how happy i am right now...well i will keep you posted just wanted to share the "may be" good news!!!

not a guy but mayeb try again

I AM GOING TO HIS GRADUATION!!!!

I CANT WAIT TO SEE HIS FACE WHEN HE SEES ME IN THE GYMNASIUM OF HIS SCHOOL ON SAT.!!!

at the moment life is great, you guys are some awesome people, and my spirits have been lifted b/c of your engouraging words ...much love...thanks again....see u on the other side of the rainbow...chelle

your dad should have a say in things like this because he is only trying to lookout for you. But at the same time tell ur dad that this guy means something to you and that if he loved you...he would understand that. He doesn't ahve to be crazy about him but he has to respect ur decision.

MAY 28, 2005.............WE STARTED DATING AGAIN!!!!!! thank you everyone who gave me advice...i considered ALL of it!!

*so he graduated on the 28th, and then we started dating again...life cant get any better than this!!:)*

Much Love,
Chelle XOX